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Sometimes I feel like the only girl on this planet who does not go crazy over *******s. And some things being wrong or right are completely subjective. Contrary to your friend, I do not run to the guy who likes to toss passive-aggressive insults at me. I usually run to the guy I get along with the best.
For many woman that would have been me since I was not fawning over them or trying to sleep with them. Any woman who takes herself too seriously and can't take a joke like "how dare I" didn't bother me either. Who wants them as friends anyway? I remember one of my coworkers lecturing me on why I drove away the "pretty girl" when I told her her house was not going to be a great "investment". I wonder if she remembers me now? She didn't take it too well but who cares? Cold as ice looking for heel hounds is not my type even when I am looking.
For many woman that would have been me since I was not fawning over them or trying to sleep with them. Any woman who takes herself too seriously and can't take a joke like "how dare I" didn't bother me either. Who wants them as friends anyway? I remember one of my coworkers lecturing me on why I drove away the "pretty girl" when I told her her house was not going to be a great "investment". I wonder if she remembers me now? She didn't take it too well but who cares? Cold as ice looking for heel hounds is not my type even when I am looking.
There is a large difference between tossing insults and seeing them as people, not conquests. Perhaps I misread you? It's all in delivery as well.
I doubt anyone likes cold people... except maybe other cold people. Or icebergs.
I will bet you like them better than "nice guys". Its not being rude or crude. What you will see is men wondering why some "a**hole" is not worshiping the ground she walks on like he does. Many of the "hot girls" have it coming unless you are blind to it. They dish out crap. They are used to complete submission. Woman are not turned on at all by subordination. You yourself said that you like authoritative men and no man in authority can refrain from being a jerk when the context calls for it and believe me, with some woman, its called for.
There is a large difference between tossing insults and seeing them as people, not conquests. Perhaps I misread you? It's all in delivery as well.
I doubt anyone likes cold people... except maybe other cold people. Or icebergs.
It is delivered with a teasing smirk. I do it with anyone including my boy when I pretend to steal his dessert. Perhaps I got it from my grandma who liked to tease people. I simply did not subordinate myself as I perhaps would have before I became a bit of a monk. It was quite an education.
I will bet you like them better than "nice guys". Its not being rude or crude. What you will see is men wondering why some "a**hole" is not worshiping the ground she walks on like he does. Many of the "hot girls" have it coming unless you are blind to it. They dish out crap. They are used to complete submission. Woman are not turned on at all by subordination. You yourself said that you like authoritative men and no man in authority can refrain from being a jerk when the context calls for it and believe me, with some woman, its called for.
It is delivered with a teasing smirk. I do it with anyone including my boy when I pretend to steal his dessert. Perhaps I got it from my grandma who liked to tease people. I simply did not subordinate myself as I perhaps would have before I became a bit of a monk. It was quite an education.
The beauty of FANTASIES, is not to overly analyze them, for they are unexplainable and that is the reason behind many of them. They are raw, uninhibited, often unattainable, and far reaching. That is the beauty of it too. Trying to package it into a nice neat little psychological explanatory box sort of ruins it.
Yes fantasies flow in our minds, and are normally instantaneous, that is without really giving a thought about them. As you say, they are raw, uninhibited, and very often far reaching and unattainable. But a lot of our fantasies have deep rooted explanations, that are normally in the subconscious. Sometimes it helps quite a bit to explain the reason why a person is fantasising about certain events.
Fantasy telling between couples, or as often called pillow talk, can enhance a couple's sex life. They open up avenues in sex without which sex life may be boring. Understanding each other's fantasies puts man and wife closer together, and provides them countless of thoughts to revv up sex life.
Is it normal for a person not to have sexual fantasies other than that of wanting to have more sex?
Any thought that excites us sexually may be a fantasy, even if was a one-time thought.
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