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Have any of guys/gals have any experience with this one. Usually my wife and I talk during foreplay, and sometimes she'll mention something like "does your wife know you are over here?" I get turned on and come back by mentioning "her boyfriend." Then tonight, she mentions something about us, "I guess we are swingers." So, two thoughts. First, I find it extremely arousing, because my wife is someone you would never suspect to be in to that kind of thing. Second, I'm kinda freaking out, does she have a fascination with swapping or swinging? I asked her once about the bf/swinging remarks, and she basically replied, "no way, are you kidding?" Anyways, is it part of the foreplay thing or has the freak been unleashed from my DW?
Don't forget to tell her how much you like it when she does these things. If there is any indication you think it's not good she make keep her talk to herself.
Encourage her to let loose with her fantasies and don't over analyze. She may approach you someday and tell you she's been thinking a lot about things and would like to explore a few.
Don't forget to tell her how much you like it when she does these things. If there is any indication you think it's not good she make keep her talk to herself.
Encourage her to let loose with her fantasies and don't over analyzShe may approach you someday and tell you she's been thinking a lot about things and would like to explore a few.
Then you can get as kinky as you both agree.
Yes, never discourage fun kinky sex especially with us women b/c we can be a bit shy sometimes!
Don't forget to tell her how much you like it when she does these things. If there is any indication you think it's not good she make keep her talk to herself.
Encourage her to let loose with her fantasies and don't over analyze. She may approach you someday and tell you she's been thinking a lot about things and would like to explore a few.
Then you can get as kinky as you both agree.
Funny thing is..I've always fantasized about the swinging thing, but when the wife brings it up in harmless fashion during foreplay, I start thinking, "what if?"Even though my DW has never admitted to this fantasy, I think its something she may, at the least, be curious. All things considered, it's a big turn on for me, but *if* things ever progressed to actually wanting to try...well, I would have second thoughts. Its kind of a be careful what you wish for type of thing I suppose.
Funny thing is..I've always fantasized about the swinging thing, but when the wife brings it up in harmless fashion during foreplay, I start thinking, "what if?"Even though my DW has never admitted to this fantasy, I think its something she may, at the least, be curious. All things considered, it's a big turn on for me, but *if* things ever progressed to actually wanting to try...well, I would have second thoughts. Its kind of a be careful what you wish for type of thing I suppose.
There is a big difference between fantasy and reality. Not to say you shouldn't do what you want to do, but I think when you start adding other parties to your relationship, it can lead to fights and jealousy. There are things I fantasize about but would I do them? Heck no!!
Funny thing is..I've always fantasized about the swinging thing, but when the wife brings it up in harmless fashion during foreplay, I start thinking, "what if?"Even though my DW has never admitted to this fantasy, I think its something she may, at the least, be curious. All things considered, it's a big turn on for me, but *if* things ever progressed to actually wanting to try...well, I would have second thoughts. Its kind of a be careful what you wish for type of thing I suppose.
Good - and honest - point.
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Originally Posted by MsRiss7383
There is a big difference between fantasy and reality. Not to say you shouldn't do what you want to do, but I think when you start adding other parties to your relationship, it can lead to fights and jealousy. There are things I fantasize about but would I do them? Heck no!!
There is a big difference between fantasy and reality. Not to say you shouldn't do what you want to do, but I think when you start adding other parties to your relationship, it can lead to fights and jealousy. There are things I fantasize about but would I do them? Heck no!!
I have to wonder if the "swinging" fantasy is fairly common in LTR/marriages?
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