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Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than
others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is
horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.
Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has,
how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.
They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact
with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing
and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent
ways.
A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She
doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the
life he has constructed around himself.
A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical
self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.
As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her
hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her
eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or
annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes
while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things.
Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is
based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need.
It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples'
estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other
people let her know that it is beautiful.
I'm completely unable to reconcile the differences between men and women. It seems like success with women is equal
to spending half of your life working to create a giant illusion, something vastly tiring and annoying, while sacrificing
your own true self and your own interests. We construct our lives around nest-building. We're like male birds building
nests and showing them off to attract mates. It's pathetic. Everything we do is to get women. It is a ****ing **** deal.
Someone needs to invent a drug which has no hormonal imbalance side-effects but is able to erase a man's sex drive
and attraction to women. It would increase productivity rates to incredible heights. I'd be free and happy. I'd feel
complete. I'd be able to concentrate on my biochemistry studying.
We need to go back and get Cyndi straightened out.
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