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I admit liking the bad guys, hoping to make them to good guys. Which usually doesn't work. And I am old enough to know that. I had a nice guy once - he did everything for me and it was really annoying. It bored me really quick and I treated him like crap (I was about 20). He kept crying and was suicidal and I hoped he stands up for himself and tells me not to be like that so I can respect him. He did not. He still gets kicked around and recently contacted me, telling me he still loves me (why????). I hated myself during the time we were dating because I am usually not a bad person, he just triggered that in me. Everybody told me how cute he is and I should appreciate it and I really tried, that is, why it lastet for 2 years (and the sex was awesome). He did all the nice things I was hoping to get from the bad guy I dated before that. In my opinion women do want a guy who they have to fight for love a little bit - but too much is unhealthy and exhausting - he should be a man and not a whimp. But finding a guy who is not a criminal but still kinda wild, not too loving but not too cold either, who I can take care of but not have to clean up behind him, who doesn't cry when it's cold and he has to take the dog for a walk, who doesn't clean like a girl but also doesn't live in the dirt, who is kinda rough but sensitive in bed - this is not easy to find.Guys who do EVERYTHING for a girl, are super nice, say always "yes" and spend their last dime on them (and then complain), they DO WANT to be treated bad or at least that is what they are sending out to women. I can only laugh about guys showing up at Judge Judy and complaining, they spent too much on a girl. I do not respect a guy who does everything without questioning. Yes, I noticed that nice guys finish last.I have some male friends who complain about that. They need longer to find the right girl but at the end their relationships are dramafree and they find a really nice girl who appreciates them.
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Originally Posted by FutureBrennanDad I do not think all women are like that, just the pretty ones. I have been married to my wife for over 20 years and I always finish first.
He made an important and relevant point. You just want to be "catty" and "entiitled".
How do you know, "what I want"? I was just saying I'm sure she wouldn't like it. And I bet I'm right.
My friend (nice guy) just married. He had many girl friends who treated him bad and cost him alot of nerves and money. He just turned 40 and finally got the right girl. Their relationship is going better than any other relationships I know. It took longer for him, but it was worth it. Finishing last can turn out good
nice guys are guys that worship the ground a female walks on because she has a vagina
you have to qualify that stuff. what does she bring to the relationship besides having a vagina? is she funny? great personality? have money? share a lot of interests? nice guys dont care about any of these things and just let a woman walk all over them. nice guys shower women with gifts and praise even if theyve done nothing to deserve it.
easy to see why women dont like those kind of guys.
nice guys are guys that worship the ground a female walks on because she has a vagina
nice guys dont care about any of these things and just let a woman walk all over them. nice guys shower women with gifts and praise even if theyve done nothing to deserve it.
easy to see why women dont like those kind of guys.
You think it's easy to see why a girl wouldn't want a man who worshiped the ground she walked on and showered her w/ gifts...and in return all she has to do is possess a vagina?
You think it's easy to see why a girl wouldn't want a man who worshiped the ground she walked on and showered her w/ gifts...and in return all she has to do is possess a vagina?
Ok then.
yeah. where's the fun in that?
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