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View Poll Results: Your S/O says they want to become swingers...You?
End it, no further questions. 19 44.19%
Talk privately about the situation. 12 27.91%
Force them into couple’s therapy. 3 6.98%
HONESTLY…”Swingers baby, Grrrr!” 9 20.93%
Voters: 43. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-09-2010, 07:48 AM
 
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My ex DID bring that up when he was drinking. At first I felt as though it was just a fantasy thing and didn't take it seriously, but he began to talk about all the time. Always when he was drinking, but then again he was always drinking.

His obsession with the idea wasn't the only thing that destroyed our marriage, but it was another negative he laid in the pile of crap that buried it. We just didn't see eye to eye. He seemed to think that swinging might help our marriage, whereas I thought that him refraining from drinking and drug use and working steadily might help even more.
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Old 01-09-2010, 10:36 AM
 
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The ex brought it up a couple of times..I told him that "you need to screw me first before you start bringing others in". That always shut him up
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Old 01-09-2010, 10:40 AM
 
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The ex brought it up a couple of times..I told him that "you need to screw me first before you start bringing others in". That always shut him up
That is what I can't understand? If you have something at home, why would you want strange? Nope, old Rugged just needs one woman to give a workout to.
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Old 01-09-2010, 12:53 PM
 
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The relationship would be over. Not my way of living or being with someone.
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Old 01-09-2010, 01:01 PM
 
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Where is the Hell Yes response on the poll ?
I think it's letter 4
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Old 01-09-2010, 01:06 PM
 
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I have to say that the ones that I witnessed looked like they were having a great time? And no they weren't nude yet, they aren't that dumb!LOL........ It was more of what I would call heavy petting and making out? Never the less, I grabbed my tools and beat it as soon as I could. It isn't for me though. Rugged
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Old 01-09-2010, 01:09 PM
 
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Yeah, the idea of it sounds pretty fun, until you are watching your wife get rocked by another man. noooo thanks.
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Old 01-09-2010, 01:12 PM
 
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Yeah, the idea of it sounds pretty fun, until you are watching your wife get rocked by another man. noooo thanks.
Try trying to watch it and not get electrocuted in the process!LMAO.........
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Old 01-09-2010, 01:18 PM
 
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Noper, I couldn't do it! It would bother me that I'm not enough for him, and more so I'd be beyond furious with him knowing that he would be just dandy watching me give myself to another man! I mean if thats ok for the person you love to sit back and watch you get off on someone else then thats just F-ed up!
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Old 01-09-2010, 02:23 PM
 
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She'd probably die of carbon monoxide poisoning from all the smoke I'd leave behind after breaking the sound barrier getting the hell out of Dodge!!!!

In other words, hell no!!!
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