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View Poll Results: Your S/O says they want to become swingers...You?
End it, no further questions. 19 44.19%
Talk privately about the situation. 12 27.91%
Force them into couple’s therapy. 3 6.98%
HONESTLY…”Swingers baby, Grrrr!” 9 20.93%
Voters: 43. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-08-2010, 04:45 PM
 
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How do you react? Poll is kept private...Bare in mind if you have kids, etc...
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Old 01-08-2010, 04:55 PM
 
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If I was in a relationship and the man wanted to lead a swingers lifestyle then it would depend. I would have to know the people involved and there's the huge issue... STD's for the main part. I think the one exception would be if it was a celebrity or if it was a close friend or someone I can trust. Another issue is the man wouldn't have it his way only.

Either way, not sure as it's risky....

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Old 01-08-2010, 04:57 PM
 
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I would tell him my swing is made for 2....for him and for me....
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Old 01-08-2010, 05:00 PM
 
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I say, sure thing! I enjoyed adding another gal or guy
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Old 01-08-2010, 05:00 PM
 
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There's not a chance on earth.
My husband would NEVER want to do this. Neither would I.
Ugh.
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Old 01-08-2010, 05:00 PM
 
Location: somewhere close to Tampa, but closer to the beach
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End it..and run from her as fast as possible...then file for custody of my kids
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Old 01-08-2010, 05:21 PM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
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There's not a chance on earth.
My husband would NEVER want to do this. Neither would I.
Ugh.
Aye. No chance I would ever agree to this. If she was adamant that she wanted to do it, then we'd have to part ways. I'd never go down that road. My body only belongs to me & her. I don't wanna share it with anyone else.

I'd end my marriage. Take my kids with me. And run as fast as I can.
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Old 01-08-2010, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I would tell him sure....but he swings me first....at the swings at the park!!
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Old 01-08-2010, 05:47 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Where is the Hell Yes response on the poll ?
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Old 01-08-2010, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Neither here nor there
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Deal breaker for me.
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