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Old 01-11-2010, 12:44 PM
 
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Ill explain, its funny cuz now i see my ex, and im like damn,what did i ever see in her lol. She is pretty, dont get me wrong, but i dont see her as the hottest woman ever! My wife now i think shes the hottest, sexiest, prettiest woman ever! She turrns me on like crazy, insanely! I always tell her, "i bet a bunch of guys flirt with you, cuz your so damn hot!" She tells me, "your crazy, not everybody thinks im the hottest woman on earth like you" LOL, WHICH is good, but do you think that love blinds you, and when your in love, does it make your s/o seem like the hottest,hansomest person in the world?
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Old 01-11-2010, 12:52 PM
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Location: MA/NH
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Of course! The more I like anyone, the more pleasant looking they are to me. And if I meet someone that is really good looking but they turn out to be an ugly person inside, then they lose a lot of their physical attractiveness factor to me. Or if a hot looking person is a sleaze, then they send out dirty vibes to me.
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Old 01-11-2010, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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I definitely find women who are nice, smart, and overall pleasant to be around more attractive than if they are obnoxious, snobby, or rude. A woman can be the hottest thing on two legs, but if I don't like her personality then she comes off less attractive to me, a good example is Megan Fox. Very pretty, but from interviews I've seen she dropped a few percentage points on the hotness meter once she opened her mouth.
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Old 01-11-2010, 02:34 PM
 
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A man can be hot, sexy &/or handsome with regards to "outer beauty"...but if his "inner beauty" is ugly

Then he's just an all around "ugly" person to me. Women will ask me the "what if's"..."what if he has a good job, etc. All that is a shallow way to determine if I'm interested in a man or not.

Now, if a man has "inner beauty"....that will automatically make him hot, sexy &/or handsome to me!!!!

Inner beauty scores A LOT more points with me

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Ill explain, its funny cuz now i see my ex, and im like damn,what did i ever see in her lol. She is pretty, dont get me wrong, but i dont see her as the hottest woman ever! My wife now i think shes the hottest, sexiest, prettiest woman ever! She turrns me on like crazy, insanely! I always tell her, "i bet a bunch of guys flirt with you, cuz your so damn hot!" She tells me, "your crazy, not everybody thinks im the hottest woman on earth like you" LOL, WHICH is good, but do you think that love blinds you, and when your in love, does it make your s/o seem like the hottest,hansomest person in the world?
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Old 01-11-2010, 02:38 PM
 
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A man can be hot, sexy &/or handsome with regards to "outer beauty"...but if his "inner beauty" is ugly

Then he's just an all around "ugly" person to me. Women will ask me the "what if's"..."what if he has a good job, etc. All that is a shallow way to determine if I'm interested in a man or not.

Now, if a man has "inner beauty"....that will automatically make him hot, sexy &/or handsome to me!!!!

Inner beauty scores A LOT more points with me
So you don't like them Rugged?
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Old 01-11-2010, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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Of course it does.

The more I care about you, the better you look to me.

Love colors your life. Forever if you are lucky. It makes everything more beautiful.
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Old 01-11-2010, 02:42 PM
 
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Love makes all the difference in a relationship. If the love isn't there, it won't last? When you become old and frail, love is all you have left. Rugged

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Old 01-11-2010, 02:46 PM
 
Location: VA
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No but I think you become a lot more aware of what else makes that person "the one" than you ever thought were possible. Its so wild the amount of love and respect you can acquire over a lifetime.
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Old 01-11-2010, 02:48 PM
 
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It does. Leaves people saying: "WTF were you thinking?"
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Old 01-11-2010, 02:54 PM
 
Location: California
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I thought my ex was hot! We broke up after a couple years, then we got back together a few months later and I found him to be completely repulsing! The thought of having sex with him grosed me out more then anything and I just didnt understand why I wasn't attracted to him anymore. Then I realized when we were looking at places to move in together that I absolutely couldn't go through with it. I guess I got back together with him bc he was trying so hard and doing everything I had wanted him to do before, so I figured if I gave him another shot it would work. But I stopped loving him at that point. So yes....love makes you think a lot of things. I saw him a couple months ago and just couldn't believe I wasted 4 years away. Love is a tricky son of a biotch! lol
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