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Old 01-13-2010, 11:19 AM
 
Location: At the Lake (in Texas)
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Where does that leave the poor woman ??

Divorced from that freak, hopefully.
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Old 01-13-2010, 11:24 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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The only case scenario that I can think of when rape fantasy can be fulfilled is with a woman that you are happily married to and even then it could be dangerous. You really need to know the person well to know that she is not about to get you in trouble, otherwise it's just stupid. How can anyone go ahead with it just from talking on craiglist is beyond me. That woman's ex is probably in disbelief now that he was actually able to pull it off.

Even then I wouldn't risk it -- period.

When I was much younger I was with a couple of different women who insisted they "liked it rough". They'd push, pull hair, slap, hit, all in the name of escalating the roughness of the moment.

And both times ALL it took to change the sentiment was grabbing a wrist a bit too hard, shoving them back onto the bed.

At that point "lust and passion" suddenly turned to "OW -- not THAT hard! You don't have to be so rough!"

Nope, I was lucky to learn at an early age, and that's one game I'll never, ever, EVER play again.
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Old 01-13-2010, 11:34 AM
 
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Sorry, us spanish speaking immigrants can't help doing that.
Sorry. The whole thing just hit me wrong this morning.
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Old 01-13-2010, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Austin
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God, what a terrible thing to happen to that woman. I hope she divorced the guy and he gets no visitation rights with the kids. Talk about being completely f'd up in the head.
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Old 01-13-2010, 12:58 PM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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I think divorce won't even scratch the surface of her road to normality !!

Can you imagine the problems this poor woman is going to have trying to rebuild a normal life ?
Imagine the trust issues she is going to have if she starts a new relationship !

poor thing.

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Divorced from that freak, hopefully.
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Old 01-13-2010, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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...a 27 year old marine who was browsing through the Craigslist personals and saw an ad posted by woman looking for someone who likes rough sex. So he responded to the ad, exchanged a few emails with the woman and agreed to meet. She had a sexual fantasy about being raped so the marine showed up at her house and raped her at knife point.
What happened next was crazy, it turns out the woman's ex boyfriend, also a marine was the one who posted the ad and he ended up raping an innocent woman.
He was arrested being charged with rape.

Now my question is, would you pull something like this just to get back at your ex?
Even if you were going to fulfill someone's fantasy like that--which I'd refuse to do, no matter how long I'd been seeing her--wouldn't you want to get to know the person in person for a while??
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Old 01-13-2010, 01:53 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Divorced from that freak, hopefully.
Think she already is. OP described the other guy as her ex.
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Old 01-13-2010, 02:12 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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That's Terrible
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Old 01-13-2010, 05:35 PM
 
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Wow what a faaaar out story. The guy should be charged and the x boyfriend too.
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Old 01-13-2010, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia, The World!
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The difference between men and women is that a woman's fantasy would involve a stranger, her husband and an axe. Why bother with the sex? Meh. *shrug*
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