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Old 01-20-2010, 01:56 PM
 
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So if you started dating someone, rather than emailing, calling or texting you would post to their wall and say "thanks for the great sex last night, baby."

Seriously, there are some things that really don't need to be 'put out there' regardless of what most people do.
I wouldn't put having sex with someone in the same category as seeing a movie and dropping off a cupcake.
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Old 01-20-2010, 01:59 PM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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I wouldn't put having sex with someone in the same category as seeing a movie and dropping off a cupcake.
My point is that you need to use discretion when posting things on other peoples' walls.
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Old 01-20-2010, 02:00 PM
 
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I wouldn't put having sex with someone in the same category as seeing a movie and dropping off a cupcake.
Oh I would. Perhaps having some sex while munching on a cupcake and watching a movie?

Count me in.
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Old 01-20-2010, 05:22 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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I left him a comment on Facebook saying when are we going to see Avatar and that I made cupcakes and have one for him.

He deleted it along with other comments that FEMALES left him.

Seriously. I know what he is trying to do.

I just lost interest. On our date he was saying how he will take me to dinner and to see it, and that on a Monday we will go to Disneyland.

I don't mind him seeing other people since we just went out once, but it looks really fishy when someone will delete comments only left by females.

The cupcake is in my belly now.
Wow. Your Facebook comment was completely out of line. You are about to go on a second date with him, and you make a public announcement about movie plans and a homemade cupcake. Way to go and embarrass the guy!!! He's there on FB for basic friendship and networking. Maybe he's got co-workers as FB contacts. If he wanted everyone to know his personal business, then he might as well post the passwords to his voicemail and emails to everyone can check those out too.

If you thought that giving him a homemade cupcake might be too weird, why on earth would you post your dating agenda on his very public Facebook account? Why not send him a private message instead? Was it some perverse test to see if he had any other girlfriends or to see how serious he was about liking you?

By deleting all the comments by girls on his account just shows that he doesn't want any teen type dramas on his Facebook page. After all, it's not MySpace.

I'm surprised that you didn't post that you love "going steady" with him...
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Old 01-20-2010, 05:30 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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Naomi - You should be dating my manager, the one that invited his ex-gf to his upcoming birthday party, and he wants her to introduce him to her new bf... and point out that they used to date. BTW he's a nice Jewish guy who grew up in LA. So if you're ever in the Boston area, let me know.

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Old 01-20-2010, 05:44 PM
 
Location: The Mango Tree
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You should have just shown up with two cupcakes and said that you had baked a batch for some occasion and decided to bring two of the extra ones for you both to enjoy.
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Old 01-20-2010, 05:47 PM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
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Yeah, the Facebook thing wasn't a smart thing to do. I wouldn't want everyone else to know about my business. When I had a girlfriend we rarely posted on each others walls, bar maybe the odd comment once in a blue moon, but none of it was anything personal.

If I was him I would have deleted it too, to be honest.
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Old 01-20-2010, 05:58 PM
 
Location: CA
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I brought eggs on my first date once. Freshly laid by my chickens. He liked it very much.
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Old 01-20-2010, 06:04 PM
 
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I made cupcakes and want to give him one, but I don't know if it's kinda odd.
You can bring me one and we don't even have to go on a date!
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Old 01-20-2010, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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Most people in my age group communicate regularly on Facebook Walls. I can't even remember the last time I emailed a friend.
And, this is why people your age don't have any social skills. FB, texting, emailing. You guys don't know how to use the freakin phone. Or, talk in person. Have you seen a group of you guys. All you guys are texting. WTH!!
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