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Old 01-28-2010, 04:05 PM
 
Location: Tokyo (but will always be) Phoenix, Az
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A friend of mine, a girl, has been treating me like crap lately, AND I DON'T KNOW WHY??? We have been friend's for half a year, we hug eachother when ever we say hello or goodbye, we hold conversations, we just do what friends do. But lately, and I mean just starting this week, she started to ignore me. She refuses any hugs from me, she pretends I'm not there when I'm with her in a group, she walks faster or she goes to the otherside of the person she is walking with to get away from me, and she ignores and I bet deletes my messages. She has been going through some drama lately, none of which has to do anything with me, but she seems only to be taking it out on me.

Please help me, I need advice. I was friends with her on Friday last week, then this Monday she said she was mad at me for no reason, and it evolved from there. Should I ignore her too and let her cool off before she comes back to me? Should I fight back by using everybody I know that knows her to be against her?
P.S I'm in highschool so I don't know if the advice should change for age. Idk. Thank you for taking your time into reading my personal issue
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:09 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Try asking her.
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Tokyo (but will always be) Phoenix, Az
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Try asking her.
I have numerous times, she just ignores me.
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:13 PM
 
Location: USA
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Aw, it sounds like she realllLLlllyyyYyy likes you. Remember when we were in 5th grade and us girls used to throw handfuls of sand at you? We only did that to the ones who we really adored. Same concept. We females are weird!

It could be it. It's possible.

Stand neutral. Be a rock. Don't retaliate. Let her come back to you. Good luck!
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:15 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I would give her a few days to cool off, and this means no contact!

Then, ask her what the problem is, or what is the matter.

I just saw your response when you said that you have ask her, and she ignores you.

Then, my advice would be, to back off, and let her come to you.
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:18 PM
 
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It is hard to be friends with someone who doesn't want to be ur friend. I would not try to get other people involved. If she doesn't want to talk to u, then don't talk to her. Maybe she will come around, but if she doesn't u will make other friends... Good luck
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Tokyo (but will always be) Phoenix, Az
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Aw, it sounds like she realllLLlllyyyYyy likes you. Remember when we were in 5th grade and us girls used to throw handfuls of sand at you? We only did that to the ones who we really adored. Same concept. We females are weird!

It could be it. It's possible.

Stand neutral. Be a rock. Don't retaliate. Let her come back to you. Good luck!
Maybe, she was telling me on Friday, (you know that everyday last week it has been raining in the Phoenix area) that she wants her boyfriend to kiss her while standing in the rain. She told me this on Friday when we were standing in the rain.
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:20 PM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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I see you go to high school in Mesa. It wouldn't happen to be the one on Guadalupe would it? I used to live several blocks from that school.
As far as your problem is concerned the last post hit the nail on the head. Just ask her point blank, plain and simple. When people are in their teens they're going through all sorts of changes and turmoil and sometimes you can't figure out what in the world is going on. If it turns out that she continues to ignore you or you can't get an answer then it's time to move on and try to get over it. I know that sounds a little cold but it's actually good advice. In any case I wish you good luck.
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Tokyo (but will always be) Phoenix, Az
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I would give her a few days to cool off, and this means no contact!

Then, ask her what the problem is, or what is the matter.

I just saw your response when you said that you have ask her, and she ignores you.

Then, my advice would be, to back off, and let her come to you.
That's what a few of my friends told me while we were in lockdown in my 3rd hour(bomb threat)
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:23 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Maybe, she was telling me on Friday, (you know that everyday last week it has been raining in the Phoenix area) that she wants her boyfriend to kiss her while standing in the rain. She told me this on Friday when we were standing in the rain.
Does she have a BF?

If not, there's your answer. She wanted you to kiss her and you didn't. She mad. LOL.
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