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I pick the one who has boatloads of integrity, honesty, kindness, compassion, IQ points, education, silliness, and common interests. And who smells compatible without cologne. I don't much care what he looks like.
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
The hot women I've known avoid the arrogant guys who want them just as arm candy, and try to pick the nicer, shy guys who are interested in them for who they are, guys who are interested in them as a person, not as a body and a face.
You ask any woman, and they say stuff like I want a nice guy who is sensitive and kind and loving and all that nonsense.
Ok great. then how come for the most part, from what I've seen in real life, the opposite is true?
The 2 guys I know who gets a different girl every month are complete douches to the girls. They would literally bang their brains out and then call a cab to send the girls home afterwards. And they are hooking up with 8,9, 10s. On the rare occasion that they have a 2 week dry spell, they would be willing to lower the bar to a 6-7.
The next guy who is third place in getting girls is no guardian angel either. He would basically spend just enough to get them in bed. After scoring it's hit it and quit it logic for him. It's worked many many times.
Meanwhile, all the "nice guys" I know, whatever that means, get's no girls.
I am sure 99% of the guys can agree with that from their personal experiences as well.
You ask any woman, and they say stuff like I want a nice guy who is sensitive and kind and loving and all that nonsense.
Ok great. then how come for the most part, from what I've seen in real life, the opposite is true?
The 2 guys I know who gets a different girl every month are complete douches to the girls. They would literally bang their brains out and then call a cab to send the girls home afterwards. And they are hooking up with 8,9, 10s. On the rare occasion that they have a 2 week dry spell, they would be willing to lower the bar to a 6-7.
Discuss.
This is just your corner of reality. There's a much bigger reality beyond your horizons, where things are different.
Just because drive-by shootings happen routinely in some neighborhoods doesn't mean that's the norm for the rest of the US or the world.
Just because drive-by shootings happen routinely in some neighborhoods doesn't mean that's the norm for the rest of the US or the world.
Based on the logic of all the opposite-sex-generalizers on CDR, the response to witnessing a drive-by shooting would be to ask "Why are other people's cars always having shots fired from them?"
Let's not get distracted with a discussion about real nice guys ("good guys") vs. fake nice guys. The discussion is about the fact that the OP thinks women say they want men who treat them well (doesn't everyone want a partner who does that?) while he observes that women in his corner of reality put up with abuse.
Let's not get distracted with a discussion about real nice guys ("good guys") vs. fake nice guys. The discussion is about the fact that the OP thinks women say they want men who treat them well (doesn't everyone want a partner who does that?) while he observes that women in his corner of reality put up with abuse.
Well can we have a concrete definition of a real nice guy and a fake nice guy?
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