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Old 07-23-2010, 09:56 AM
 
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*chuckling* If you're under the impression that we cannot control the pelvic muscles enough to mimic the contractions, you have a few things to learn about women and our anatomy.

Trust me, if she's any good at faking it, you won't actually know it. That's kind of the point, sad as it is.
got your point .. but im sure u know they get it multiple times .. so they just cant keep faking it for 5 or more times through out the 10 or 15 or 20 mins of love making .... they can or they will fake it once or twice just to keep ur morale high but she cant keep faking it for 6 - 10 times ....
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Old 07-23-2010, 10:20 AM
 
Location: Wherever I go...
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got your point .. but im sure u know they get it multiple times .. so they just cant keep faking it for 5 or more times through out the 10 or 15 or 20 mins of love making .... they can or they will fake it once or twice just to keep ur morale high but she cant keep faking it for 6 - 10 times ....
Since I actually am a female, and thus one of the "theys" you are speaking of... yeah, I do have a clue what we're capable of. LOL

Personally, I find faking it to be a heck of a lot more effort than just saying, "hey, do this instead." I'm too selfish to fake it... nor do I sleep with people I cannot be 100% honest with. To me, faking an orgasm is a deceit, and if I care about someone enough to have sex with them, then I care enough to not deceive them.

And did I mention I'm too selfish to fake it?
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Old 07-23-2010, 10:25 AM
 
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....because he`s not doing it right and I`m getting sore and enough already!!!!!
Well, why not tell him what you need then? Only you know what feels good and will get you there on a given day. If you don't tell him or at least show him, he will never manage to "do it right" for you.

Like Wingsy said, and I agree. if you don't feel comfortable enough talking openly to the person you are intimate with, you shouldn't be intimate with them in the first place.
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Old 07-23-2010, 10:30 AM
 
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You can't tell people to do with their vaginas. This is getting insulting.
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Old 07-23-2010, 10:40 AM
 
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Since I actually am a female, and thus one of the "theys" you are speaking of... yeah, I do have a clue what we're capable of. LOL

Personally, I find faking it to be a heck of a lot more effort than just saying, "hey, do this instead." I'm too selfish to fake it... nor do I sleep with people I cannot be 100% honest with. To me, faking an orgasm is a deceit, and if I care about someone enough to have sex with them, then I care enough to not deceive them.

And did I mention I'm too selfish to fake it?
Well you are correct ... It takes a lot more to fake and when u r honest with your partner you dont wanna decieve him... !
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Old 07-23-2010, 11:58 AM
 
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How would women feel if their guy always faked their attraction to them telling them they were beautiful when in reality those guys thought their girl looked like a cow. I wonder how women would feel if their guy faked in sex. Guys faking it is so underrated but it happens more often than you can imagine.

Dishonesty, deceit, lying, faking, etc. in any area shouldn't be part of a loving relationship.
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Old 07-23-2010, 01:11 PM
 
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Default Fake orgasm? Why?

WHAT??!?!?!

FAKE????

If that were true she would win some awards for best acting.
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Old 07-23-2010, 01:17 PM
 
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How would women feel if their guy always faked their attraction to them telling them they were beautiful when in reality those guys thought their girl looked like a cow. I wonder how women would feel if their guy faked in sex. Guys faking it is so underrated but it happens more often than you can imagine.

Dishonesty, deceit, lying, faking, etc. in any area shouldn't be part of a loving relationship.

Exactly.

That's why when I guy doesn't say, "I love you." He probably doesn't.

Or when you come out of the bedroom and he says nothing as to what you are wearing... Well, he probably doesn't like it.

You ought to thank us ladies for not saying anything.

To answer the question of faking it...

Women fake just to get their smelly man off of them quicker.
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Old 07-23-2010, 01:30 PM
 
Location: 112 Ocean Avenue
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Faking it would be okay if the dog was humping your leg.
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Old 07-23-2010, 01:32 PM
 
Location: Under the lovely Southern sky
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Yes. They fake because he sucks in bed & they don't wanna hurt his feelings. So instead, they make the fakist mind boggling orgasm to make him think he's doing a good job, then when she says "OK, that's enough," he thinks it's because he wore her out.

I've been through all that before. The only difference is that I had no heart as to his feelings. I ain't gonna lay completely still for that long of a time pretending that I like it when I don't. "Get off of me, you ruined it just now" is all ya gotta say.

But yeah, that's why women fake it. They're worried about the guy's feelings. That & they wanna get it over with quicker. I don't get it, but it apparently works.

Jessie
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