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Old 08-05-2010, 05:00 PM
 
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don't see how difficult it would be for someone to just say "a little bit lower, yes, right there oooh yeah...no no, a bit to the left, ok, right there, uuuuhhhh...harder/softer...faster/slower..." you get the idea .
Absolutely, but unfortunately some people take it as criticism. Personally I like to be told if I am not doing something to my partners liking!
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Old 08-05-2010, 05:13 PM
 
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Absolutely, but unfortunately some people take it as criticism. Personally I like to be told if I am not doing something to my partners liking!
Exactly! Once you know you are doing what your partner likes, you are less likely to go wrong. Besides, isn't it a turn on to see/hear/feel your significant other enjoying it?
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Old 08-05-2010, 05:26 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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february 15th
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Old 08-05-2010, 05:47 PM
 
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Exactly! Once you know you are doing what your partner likes, you are less likely to go wrong. Besides, isn't it a turn on to see/hear/feel your significant other enjoying it?
That is a MASSIVE turn on for me. I used to date a guy who made no, NO noise during sex. It was actually quite offputting with me there moaning like a moron and him being completely silent.
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Old 08-06-2010, 02:02 AM
 
Location: California
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Sometimes women fake it becaue no matter what the guy does it's just not going to happen. It's not his fault, bodies don't always do what you want them to do.

It not hard to fake it. Any guy over 30 has probably been "faked' before and doesn't even know it.
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Old 08-06-2010, 10:05 AM
 
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I wonder how would women feel if their guy faked it. Guys faking it is so underrated. Don't see the point either from a guy faking it.
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Old 08-06-2010, 10:21 AM
 
Location: Under the lovely Southern sky
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I can tell when a man is faking. Yes, they do that too. I've had a couple of men in the past who faked it. @ first I could tell it was real. But then it just sounded forced. & he never finished.

It really ain't hard to tell if he or she is faking it. It sounds like those bad actors who try to make sex noises over the phone with their friends to trick 'em into thinking that they're having sex. That's f*cking anoying!

Jessie
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Old 08-06-2010, 11:38 AM
 
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I can tell when a man is faking. Yes, they do that too. I've had a couple of men in the past who faked it. @ first I could tell it was real. But then it just sounded forced. & he never finished.

It really ain't hard to tell if he or she is faking it. It sounds like those bad actors who try to make sex noises over the phone with their friends to trick 'em into thinking that they're having sex. That's f*cking anoying!

Jessie
Hey Jessie

Yes, men fake it too and it doesn't make sense to me either. Did you tell him something about it or just let it go? How did you deal with it?

Like you and others have said, there are some things that just can't be faked.
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Old 05-01-2011, 03:12 PM
 
Location: Between Heaven And Hell.
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This really was a fun thread.

I still don’t know how a man can get away with faking it though!

I know I couldn’t!
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Old 05-01-2011, 03:26 PM
 
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This really was a fun thread.

I still don’t know how a man can get away with faking it though!

I know I couldn’t!

I've done it before.

Only once, though. And after she's already done it multiple times.

Poor girl was gettin' too tired to keep going, she said. I had a lot more to give, so I had to fake it, then go to the bathroom to finish.
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