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If you were in a relationship with a partner who's into abstinence till wed would you be willing to wait for them?
As a virgin, I would have probably said yes but now it's a ''NO''. I would find myself in a very hard possible to remain with a man that holds that strong view. We wouldn't be on the same page and I do believe you have to be compatible with your SO in all the requirements for a stable relationship which includes sex too. In addition why would I need to sign a paper in order to have intercourse? Why would he have to be my husband and not my boyfriend first?
I can understand if the guy was waiting for the right time and is nervous in that moment, which I wouldn't pressure at all but to actually need a piece of paper in order to do it? That's extreme. So no, I would have to dump him if that was the case.
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Nope...even if i am not the type to push it before we have had the chance to get to know one another on other levels first.. Intimacy is an important part of getting to know one another.. If we cannot communicate, on any level, it isn't going to work out...and it is only going to cause problems...
I do respect someone's choices...and more power to anyone who desires to wait..but i just can't do it...
Something like that.LOL....... And did I spell ah-hem right?
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That's extreme. So no, I would have to dump him if that was the case.
JK
