Thanks again for all the great replies. Shysister you are awesome.
So we had a huge fight last night...
He has a habit of putting all information into his cell phone. He always has reminders in his calendar, in the notes section he puts sports statistics in there and he records how much money we spend while on holidays.
A few weeks ago I had seen an advertisement for a fair I wanted to attend. When I suggested it to him, he said last time he went it was very expensive and he didn't have much fun, but he'd go with me if I wanted. Another advertisement for that same fair came on the tv days later, saying entry was $30 per person. I was in the other room and he yelled out "honey! It's going to cost us $60 just to get in!". His saying he had a bad time and that yelling out told me that was his way of saying he didn't really want to go.
Last night he asked me about it, as a suggestion for something to do this weekend. I said to be honest I wasn't too keen anymore, that I pictured him at the fair putting every expense into his phone and me spending the day being worried that he wasn't having fun. He flipped the f out at me.
"You think I am going to walk around like some tight wod putting everything into my phone?!!??!?!?! Is that what you think of me?!!!!???!!!!"
He went into the bedroom for the rest of the night and didn't come out - I spent another night wide awake with the issue unresolved. In true guy form he never wants to talk about it at the time. This morning he said goodbye to me but I am dreading going home tonight. I don't quite understand why he was so insulted. He seems to take offence to so many things. One time we were being intimate and I didn't do something I usually do because I just wasn't in the mood for it and he took such offence that he didn't speak to me for the rest of the day. He always thinks he is being "disrespected" or "attacked" by people, including me. I feel like I am always having to defend myself.