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So is it necessary to always be calling each other when your inlove, especially early days, infact whenever. And does it mean I am not really inlove when I do not want to get called unless for emergencies?
Last edited by cricket_factor; 04-04-2010 at 10:01 AM..
So is it necessary to always be calling each other when your inlove, especially early days, infact whenever. And does it mean I am not really inlove when I do not want to get called unless for emergencies?
Depends on the individuals and, probably, their ages. Personally it would drive me bonkers to get constant phone calls, e-mails, texts etc. allllll day long. Some young girls think you don't love them anymore if you don't do it though. I would say that emergencies only is kinda 'cold' though.
So is it necessary to always be calling each other when your inlove, especially early days, infact whenever. And does it mean I am not really inlove when I do not want to get called unless for emergencies?
I never personally had a problem with it. I always enjoyed hearing their voice on the phone and it was reassuring that they were as into you as you were them. I have never liked them calling me at work during working hours unless it was important or an emergency though. I can be in a very dangerous situation at times and need my full concentration to perform the task safely and correctly. Some of the other guys SO's burn up the phone calling them and it really is a distraction. If you call your SO at work while on the clock at least 20 times a day you are hindering their performance. You can admit it or not but you actually are!
I'm not really a phone person I would prefer to see them in person. I would rather speak to them on the phone for a hour a week than every 15 minutes. Although in my experience when you first start seeing someone you really like and they like you, you do talk on the phone a lot more.
Maybe you don't like her as much as she likes you? Maybe your just not a phone person. But only call me in an emergency is a tad harsh and if you like her she might get the wrong impression.
So is it necessary to always be calling each other when your inlove, especially early days, infact whenever. And does it mean I am not really inlove when I do not want to get called unless for emergencies?
If you are asking us if you are in love or not, then you aren't.
And yes....if you love someone, you want to talk to them during the day. Me thinks you sound a bit neanderthal. Do you live in a cave???
I agree with Ep. With my job I'm on the phone all day. The last thing I want to do when I leave here is be on the phone and my b/f is the exact opposite. He's not on the phone all day and loves talking on the phone. Needless to say, our phone calls are short and to the point LOL (We do live together though LOL)
. Me thinks you sound a bit neanderthal. Do you live in a cave??? [/quote]
lol
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If you are asking us if you are in love or not, then you aren't. 
