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Old 11-11-2011, 12:53 PM
 
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I think it's impossible to really say for sure what anyone would do.

I'm pretty sure I said exactly what I would do. I don't want kids of my own, I'm not dating anyone with children. Period. No changing my mind, I don't care if she's the perfect woman for me.
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Old 11-12-2011, 04:00 PM
 
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I was a single mom for a brief time and I found that what mattered most is that I had my life in order. In other words, I had a list of sitters that I could depend on, I had worked out a good schedule with my ex, my rent was paid, my job was stable, and I was happy and confident. As it turned out, I had more men interested in me than I could keep track of and turned down two marriage proposals (both guys in their 20's w/o kids) before I married the man of my dreams.

Really, it's not about the kids.
Too many believe that "it's not about the kids." It's all about what the adults want... sex, romance, to divorce because it faded, so let's start over with a new infaturation fantasy - only to discover it's worse than the 1st... & who suffers most? The kids.
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