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Originally Posted by irishmom
Sorry I haven't been here for a while but yes teaching that atheists are evil and wrong wouldn't be good in my opinion either, that's why I don't teach my children that. I teach them that everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and that right is to be respected.
But a book (from which the movie comes and the movie is a gateway to the book series for young readers) that advocates the killing of God as the enemy is attacking my beliefs directly, and this I do not feel is appropriate to introduce to my young children. Just as I would imagine a book that shows God striking down all atheists wouldn't be something an atheist would share with their young children, unless of course they would like their children confused at upset.
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I understand what you are saying but I'm afraid I respectfully disagree.
If I had kids I would take them to Christian "slanted" movies even if it showed them smiting Atheists ( as long as it was not violently graphic) and would take it as a perfect opportunity to explain what I believe and that millions do believe something completely different.
I would see it as a chance to explain that my beliefs are my own and that everyone is entitled to theirs. Including my child.
My father who was an atheist took me to churches services ( different nominations), I went to Catholic schools and was given books and taken on lectures about world religions from an early age. I remember going to Hindu and Shinto temples and to the public areas of Mosques.
He never tried to shield me even from things he found uncomfortable or ridiculous.
I felt in that sense he respected me enough to make my own mind up.
I became an atheist because of ME not him.
Why not explain to kids that some atheists ( not all of them ) are extreme in their thinking and would like god to be a thing of the past. Explain that philosophy and still enjoy the movie.
It's a movie nothing else. Philip Pullman is a strong opponent of organised religion and yes his books are clearly anti-established religion ( the movie in a typically cowardly Hollywood fashion has watered it down so much you can barely see any of his philosophy left anyway). So what ?
Don't kids deserve the chance to think for themselves with a bit of unbiased guidance from their parents ?
I think we owe them that.
Parents may shield their kids momentarily but I can't help feeling it is ultimately futile. Kids are curious, they will seek out the truth , and might be even more confused as to why their parents were so bothered when they find out.
Kids are not going to turn into Philip Pullman ( a lovely man by the way) because of the Golden Compass.
Books and now a movie about love, and friendship, loyalty and resilience. About good winning over evil , about the triumph of the human spirit and the beauty of strength of a little girl who refuses to give in to evil.
How bad a message is that ?
I just do not get it . It seems to me the best potential message one could give a child . Be good, be strong and be loyal. Love your friends and fight for a just cause. Stand up for vulnerable people's rights and don't be afraid to raise your head above the parapet. Never give up. Be resilient and never ever give up.
Does that sound like a negative message to anyone ?