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I think this is a religious question, so I'll ask it here.
I'm wondering what everyone's views on this are? Atheists, Christians, Muslims, etc.?
I used to be a Christian and I remember very distinctly rationalizing intercourse like: "well, we're gonna get married anyhow, so..." Now that I'm not a Christian, I believe that sex should be between a couple (married or not married) as to me it's a sign of trust and gratitude.
Something I'm particularly interested in is if there's anyone religious here who made it to marriage, are you happy you did? Did it seem like a spiritual experience? Do you feel fulfilled?
I was torn between this section and relationships, but I think the roots of the question are religious, so here it is.
I think this is a religious question, so I'll ask it here.
I'm wondering what everyone's views on this are? Atheists, Christians, Muslims, etc.?
I used to be a Christian and I remember very distinctly rationalizing intercourse like: "well, we're gonna get married anyhow, so..." Now that I'm not a Christian, I believe that sex should be between a couple (married or not married) as to me it's a sign of trust and gratitude.
Something I'm particularly interested in is if there's anyone religious here who made it to marriage, are you happy you did? Did it seem like a spiritual experience? Do you feel fulfilled?
I was torn between this section and relationships, but I think the roots of the question are religious, so here it is.
When I was young I had the same question.
I resolved that God's approval is more important to me,
I stayed a virgin till I was married.
I have far less to loose, serving God, than taking the chance serving self, an loosing eternally.
on the other side of that . some one that does not value them self ,gives them self to any thing, like a test tube ,only a test tube can be washed and clean but a person once contaminated, has nothing to offer some one of value.
When I was young I had the same question.
I resolved that God's approval is more important to me,
I stayed a virgin till I was married.
I have far less to loose, serving God, than taking the chance serving self, an loosing eternally.
on the other side of that . some one that does not value them self ,gives them self to any thing, like a test tube ,only a test tube can be washed and clean but a person once contaminated, has nothing to offer some one of value.
Wow, that sounds rather depressing. This implies that sex before marriage makes you valueless?
I'm curious what religion you uphold?
I think this is a religious question, so I'll ask it here.
I'm wondering what everyone's views on this are? Atheists, Christians, Muslims, etc.?
I used to be a Christian and I remember very distinctly rationalizing intercourse like: "well, we're gonna get married anyhow, so..." Now that I'm not a Christian, I believe that sex should be between a couple (married or not married) as to me it's a sign of trust and gratitude.
Something I'm particularly interested in is if there's anyone religious here who made it to marriage, are you happy you did? Did it seem like a spiritual experience? Do you feel fulfilled?
I was torn between this section and relationships, but I think the roots of the question are religious, so here it is.
No sex till marriage. Then, knock yourself out, have fun.
Sex was given to Adam and Eve -- it draws a couple together and it bonds them, in addition to procreation. So, it's to be done within the confines of marriage, nowhere else.
My wife and I waited till marriage. We had every opportunity to NOT wait, as she actually bought a house and I lived in it by myself for 3 months prior. We are very glad we waited.
I think this is a religious question, so I'll ask it here.
I'm wondering what everyone's views on this are? Atheists, Christians, Muslims, etc.?
I used to be a Christian and I remember very distinctly rationalizing intercourse like: "well, we're gonna get married anyhow, so..." Now that I'm not a Christian, I believe that sex should be between a couple (married or not married) as to me it's a sign of trust and gratitude.
Something I'm particularly interested in is if there's anyone religious here who made it to marriage, are you happy you did? Did it seem like a spiritual experience? Do you feel fulfilled?
I was torn between this section and relationships, but I think the roots of the question are religious, so here it is.
I am atheist, and no my wife and I did not wait until marriage. We both enjoyed our human sexuality prior to meeting, and continued to enjoy that part of our life with each other since we met. We've been married nearly 20 years no, so it seems to be working for us. I can not understand why someone would want to wait until marriage to explore their sexuality. Its a wonderful part of development. If you do, I certainly think you have that right to choose that lifestyle decision, but for me, it was never even considered.
No sex till marriage. Then, knock yourself out, have fun.
Sex was given to Adam and Eve -- it draws a couple together and it bonds them, in addition to procreation. So, it's to be done within the confines of marriage, nowhere else.
My wife and I waited till marriage. We had every opportunity to NOT wait, as she actually bought a house and I lived in it by myself for 3 months prior. We are very glad we waited.
I do admire your self control
You lived in your wife's house for 3 months by yourself? lol Where was your wife?
Do you think it was a more sacred (for lack of a better word) experience because you waited?
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Originally Posted by GoCardinals
The question is asked in the reverse logic.
Religion does not prohibit sex, it regulates it.
So let's reverse back the logic, and look at it from religious philosophy.
If you want sex, then get married.
Whether someone follows this philosophy or not, is their free choice to make.
I'm confused what question you're talking about. I also don't know if that sounds like a healthy way to look at relationships.
I feel like you'll get the attitude "Dang, I really wanna have sex. I don't like you that much.... but let's get married!"
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Originally Posted by dr.strangelove
I am atheist, and no my wife and I did not wait until marriage. We both enjoyed our human sexuality prior to meeting, and continued to enjoy that part of our life with each other since we met. We've been married nearly 20 years no, so it seems to be working for us. I can not understand why someone would want to wait until marriage to explore their sexuality. Its a wonderful part of development. If you do, I certainly think you have that right to choose that lifestyle decision, but for me, it was never even considered.
I appreciate your response This is how I feel as well. I don't really see the point in waiting personally, but I am still interested if others think it was worthwhile or not or how many people actually live up to that standard.
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