Dating life in SD for males? (San Diego: living, legally, shop)

[CNYC]

Not for nothing but if you like brown or olive skinned women like I do Tijuana can be a goldmine.

I also wonder if dating is "different " in North County vs. SD city limits. Anyone ?

[lostsoul359]

So where does safe sex fit into all of these wild hook ups?

[GreenAbyss]

I'm going try to answer this in a 3rd person manner...

It can be fun. San Diego is also dubbed STD capital, but I have not really noticed it. I do notice women complaining about men not wanting anything serious here though. Perhaps it is because so many new women keep visiting or moving in the city.

It really depends on where you are meeting these people though. Some social events draw more of one gender than another.

There is also a sense of everyone here having predatory and ulterior motives. I also think this behavior seems to be common among the big 3 cities in California. You can usually notice those people very easily though.

Age range also will dictate on what people want as well in dating. Usually around age 26 people do not want anything serious because they always feel there is something else better. But if you were in other areas of the country age 26 people already have kids and are married, so it is environmental to an extent.

Then you have those who are just always suspicious of others from the opposite gender. These people probably have been hurt in the past and it made them jaded towards others.

California has always had a reputation for their women...you never hear anything about California guys though. So there has to be a reason.

[neutrino78x]

I'm still wondering if anybody knows some good bars in san diego to meet military females, especially Naval Aviators...but police would work too, what are the police or fire bars in San Diego, like Molly's on Chicago Fire? I love the tough girls

[djxpress]

San Diego is called Man Diego for a reason. Every girl with even halfway decent looks think she deserves a rich, model boyfriend that will cater to her every need.

If you are a 9/10 white guy that earns six figures, you'll do ok. If you're an Asian male, you won't do very well, as most Asian women around here are Lus that go after Caucasian guys and look down on Asian men. Hispanic men are a dime a dozen around here and unless you have Enrique Ingelsias looks and money, you'll seem like every other working class Hispanic in the area. The black population is sparse, especially in the North County Coastal area.

Again, in San Diego, seems like many of the good looking girls of other races always go after the trophy Caucasian boyfriend. So if you're white and make bank, you'll be fine.

[Larry Siegel]

Originally Posted by 1AngryTaxPayer

If you look like Arnold no, you need to stick to existing gyms with free weights. That is if you want phone numbers.

Most of the girls I first dated here could bench at least plates.

I don't think I've met five girls in my life who could bench 135, if that is what you are trying to say. Maybe I'd better stick around San Diego a little longer...

[1AngryTaxPayer]

Originally Posted by Larry Siegel

I don't think I've met five girls in my life who could bench 135, if that is what you are trying to say. Maybe I'd better stick around San Diego a little longer...

Yes, two plates and olympic bar. You have to hang out in free weight gyms and the olympic training center

Also SDSU track.

[metoque]

Originally Posted by djxpress

San Diego is called Man Diego for a reason. Every girl with even halfway decent looks think she deserves a rich, model boyfriend that will cater to her every need.

If you are a 9/10 white guy that earns six figures, you'll do ok. If you're an Asian male, you won't do very well, as most Asian women around here are Lus that go after Caucasian guys and look down on Asian men. Hispanic men are a dime a dozen around here and unless you have Enrique Ingelsias looks and money, you'll seem like every other working class Hispanic in the area. The black population is sparse, especially in the North County Coastal area.

Again, in San Diego, seems like many of the good looking girls of other races always go after the trophy Caucasian boyfriend. So if you're white and make bank, you'll be fine.

This is so true. I'll also throw in that you can't be short.

[moved]

Originally Posted by neutrino78x

I'm still wondering if anybody knows some good bars in san diego to meet military females, especially Naval Aviators...but police would work too, what are the police or fire bars in San Diego, like Molly's on Chicago Fire? I love the tough girls

Even if you meet some women, what makes you think that they would even be interested in you?

[BobbyBratty]

Originally Posted by moved

Even if you meet some women, what makes you think that they would even be interested in you?

Ok moved, why are you throwing shade at this poster?