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Old 04-22-2009, 01:23 PM
 
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Hi ! We are relocating to Walnut Creek / Lafayette/ Orinda area, not sure cause we are looking for a home to rent. My middle school daughter will be in public school. She is so worried about what the girls are like in this area. Are they nice ? Do the kids wear a bunch of designer labels ? Are the girls approachable ? I don't know what to tell her. She is a super sweet, quiet, girl who has lots of good friends here in San Antonio Texas. Thanks
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Old 04-22-2009, 01:25 PM
 
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Unless a lot has changed in 13 years then I'd say yes. Just normal kids, some good and bad. Most kids aren't stuck up and bratty in Walnut Creek, at least not as much as some of the surrounding wealthier communities.
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Old 04-22-2009, 01:33 PM
 
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Both Lafayette and Walnut Creek are wonderful options for your daughter. I wouldn't say that the girls or boys are crazy about wearing designer labels. All of the kids look like kids and where nice appropriate clothes. What I've noticed is that kids have developed their own groups since most of them have been to school together for a long time so breaking into those groups and making friends can be a bit hard. You probably want to get her involved in some type of group setting and activities so that she can make friends right away. Being the new kid is always a bit hard.

Good luck to you.
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Old 04-22-2009, 01:52 PM
 
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My son goes to middle school here and seems to be doing alright. It took him a while to make friends since he didn't grow up here and the "cliques" were already established..very tough on a pre-teen in general but seems to have finally settled.

The middle school in Lafayette offers some activity classes during lunch break which seemed to help that lunchtime anxiety when there's nobody to hang out with. No concerns about the kids or anything..as always, there will be good kids and the usual bratty 13yr old angst. My son hasn't really witnessed or had any experience with bullies or anything. Lots of cell phones and texting while crossing the street though! (Probably a national phenomenon, however.). Haven't noticed any designer wear on the girls (I wouldn't know the difference anway) other than the boys and their "DC" label or "skater" wear.
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Old 04-22-2009, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Los Altos Hills, CA
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Probably Not.

But Middle Schoolers arent very nice anywhere.
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Old 04-22-2009, 02:07 PM
 
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Thanks for the feedback ! Really helps !
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Old 04-22-2009, 04:58 PM
 
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Middle school kids are miserable no matter what area you're in.
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Old 04-24-2009, 08:09 PM
 
Location: Here and There
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Probably Not.

But Middle Schoolers arent very nice anywhere.
Very true! You couldn't pay me to go back
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Old 05-31-2009, 11:02 PM
 
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Thank you .
How about in mountain side close tracy area.
How are housing out there please advice .
Thanks again .
VJ
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Old 06-03-2009, 02:28 AM
 
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I am a parent in Walnut Creek and live down the street from Foothill Middle School in Walnut Creek, There is a good mix of kids, some very down-to-earth appearing. Walnut Creek tends to be more diverse than Orinda/Lafayette, and less snobby.

The middle school in Lafayette apparently has had history of drug problems, but now they apparently have very strict anti-drug policy with some success.

Walnut Creek, Lafayette, Moraga and Orinda have top schools by California standards, and the schools have high scores because of socioeconomic advantage (most of the kids are children of high-earning professionals). Since you are from Texas, you may be disappointed as the top-rated public schools in California may pale in comparison to an average school in Texas.
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