Hard data on my experience with the women of Seattle (Valentine's day, school)

[Garfunkle524]

I have a hard time believing that your geographical location is to blame for your lack of success with women. Maybe it's because you clearly see them as only numbers?

In either case we're glad you're leaving. I have no idea why so many people move here when they are determined to hate it before they even show up.

[perigee]

We could look at the one common denominator (see what I did there): you.

Maybe these women can sense how you view them and frankly your attitudes sucks. Your post reads like you still have a 13 year old boy's brain in your head. How about stop thinking of women as nothing more then boobs to grab and place to stick your junk?

If you have better luck in other areas, then my take away is that Seattle women are smarter and more self assured to blow off men like you.

[GatsbyGatz]

What kind of guy keeps this kind of data and posts it online? That sounds incredibly neurotic and mentally unbalanced. And you've been complaining on this forum for months.

Have you ever stopped to think that you're the problem? Maybe the issue here is that girls in Seattle have a lot of options, and they rate you so low that you're not really worth their time to please. And really, why please some neurotic guy who collects this kind of data when they could be with other eligible guys?

[PollyGlott]

The OP assigns a number to the women he meets, like one would rate a hotel or a movie.
Then he wonders why they're not falling all over him - after all, he's an "8", right?
Maybe he's an "8" out of 100...

[CrazyDonkey]

There are more men than women in Seattle. That means they can be picky. Maybe they're not settling for a "6", while women elsewhere might...

Three dates is an awfully small dataset.

[Ira500]

Originally Posted by PollyGlott

The OP assigns a number to the women he meets, like one would rate a hotel or a movie.
Then he wonders why they're not falling all over him - after all, he's an "8", right?
Maybe he's an "8" out of 100...

Maybe women(whom he calls "girls") have higher standards here, and they don't want to go out with someone who gives them a numerical rating as if they're an appliance.
Also, the data is flawed. There's an assumption made that every other man(whom he wouldn't call "boys") has the same success rate that he does, and that women react to other men the exact same way they react to him.
Sure, tastes are different in different cities. In Seattle, hot dogs with cream cheese are popular. Maybe women in Seattle don't want to go out with immature doofuses.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by FleeingSeattle

In six months in Seattle, I have now failed ten out of ten times with the women here. I am only counting girls I at least kissed or just got their phone number. I am not counting girls that I just completely struck out with. (That number was less than ten.)

Total count: 10
Age range: 19-36
Attractiveness: 6-10
Girls kissed: 5
Girls I got to 2nd base with: 3
Times I could have had sex: 2 (one was insane, one I wanted a relationship with)
Times I had sex: 0
Dates planned (time and place agreed on): 6
Dates who flaked on me at the last minute: 3
Dates that actually occurred: 3
Girls who were so bat**** insane I had to cut the date short early: 1
Second dates: 0

At this point, based on my experiences elsewhere, I can definitely say it is them, not me. If you're a single guy, good luck and think twice before moving here. I'm leaving soon and I will never forget the weird skittish women (and men, for that matter) of Seattle.

Originally Posted by FleeingSeattle;

Actually, I have a correction to make:

Dates planned (time and place agreed on): 5
Dates who flaked on me at the last minute: 2
Dates that actually occurred: 3

So you felt up every date you had? 3 out of 3? This is what you do with first dates? And you're surprised there were no second dates?
And you somehow managed to kiss 5 women even though you only dated 3?

These are very weird things to complain about. How old are you, btw? You say you've dated a fairly broad range of ages, so you must be around 30, give or take? Usually 30-somethings are a bit more mature than this, at least, I would hope they are.

Where are you from?

[franklin42]

We were due for one of these threads. This should be entertaining.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by franklin42

We were due for one of these threads. This should be entertaining.

Are you bringing the popcorn?

[franklin42]

Yes, and the beers