Pardon my ignorance T.O. John, but what does "hella" mean?
That's a new word for me and I'm pretty sure it's not an English word. Is that some kind of black jive talk? If it is jive talk and that's the way you talk to white women in Canada then you need to drop that jive talk habit if you want to capture the interest of white women because it's a real turn off. No "potential" wife and mother wants her kids growing up speaking improper English learned from their dad and the way you present yourself talking to women will make a lasting impression.
As long as you're making it obvious you only want white women because you think they're hot, that's going to be a total turn off for ALL women of all colors. Nobody wants to be wanted only because of their skin color. Beauty is only skin deep, you need to be looking beneath the surface to the beauty that lies in their hearts and souls and perhaps you should be examining the motivations that lie in your own heart.
Oh - and your reference to "using" prozzies (more jive talk?) is another turn off - it makes you sound like a misogynist who has no real regard for women of any color except for how you can use them to suit your own needs.
I think a change of attitude and approach is in order.
JMO.
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