Mym and Chaco-keva..wonderful thoughts and great story.
Not bragging but just comparing, I've pretty much traveled to a lot of places..Hitch hiked through Western Europe, down to Spain, Morocco, and Tunisia North Africa..Visted every state in the US except, alaska, and alabama, been all over Canada, BC to the Maritimes..
I am like what they say about Horse Sh*t ..everywhere
I am lucky to have a brother on Oahu, and an Uncle in Kauai'i so I got to go there, and Maui and Molokai.
I loved every place I have traveled..
In 1997 I got to go to Puerto Rico with my fiancé and my future FIL .my future MIL was already there visiting her mother, who was 98 at the time in Ponce.
My FIL took us through the backroads and shortcuts...me driving the rental.
when we got to Ponce, fires were burning in the hills, water was being turned off during hours of the day..
The fan in our room made a tick tick sound all night, put me to sleep....I woke up to the sound of a horse clopping up the street.
My MIL been diagnosed with terminal cancer and this would be her final trip there.
We hung around Ponce visiting, for a few days then we all piled in the car and drive up to Vega Baja to visit my FILs brothers and sisters..8 of them who all live on the same street.., we spent a couple of days there, went back to Ponce, hung out for a bit more, then I had my 'to see list' ..from a travel book i bought.
My wife and I drove to Salinas, then to Lajas, San German, Cabo Rojo, Boquerón, Mayaquez, Rincón, Aguada, Aguadillia, Arecibo, back to Old San Juan, down to Rio Grande, Loiza, Luquillo, Humacao, spending a few days and nights, mostly staying at Paradors..after two and 1/2 weeks, we went back to Ponce..for another 3 days..
I loved traveling around with my wife, because most places were new to her too..she mainly went back to PR to attend college and visit familia..
My favorite part was listening to my Wifes family 'talk story' , cook wonderful comidas, show me places only the locals know, having her dad show me how to open a coconut with a machete..etc..showing me the different fruit trees, the root vegetables, the flowers, iguanas, and identify all the things that crawl or fly in the backyards...
The local names for everything..where you could buy cervaza in a little store..
It was the very best Vacation of my whole life..within a year, my MIL was gone, and five other people I had met in PR were gone too.
I went back one or two times a year every year since 1997, a few years back we bought a place in Rincon,
I love it there, this last two years with all that is going on in PR, I am wondering if we made the right choice..
I truly love the lovely Isla of Puerto Rico and I love the people even more.
Once you visit it becomes a part of your blood and soul.
sorry for the long saga.