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Now, you don't need beat yourself up about the temp deal or anything else. So stop it.
I know you are stressed about money and the future. Would you come out okay selling the house? Getting rid of a bunch of stuff would make moving easier. And it might be cathartic for you.
Before making big decisions-- you need take your time and figure out what is better financially & emotionally for you. And then methodically do that.
I am so glad you found a support group. That is wonderful news.