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Obviously, you don't get around much. If you think the "south" is worse than other parts of the country, you are well misinformed or brainwashed. In my travels every week to another large American city (a few for which I have lived), I have found that Charlotte is probably the least racist city I have experienced in the U.S. The only issue with those in positions of power and influence is that they may choose to hire based on abilities and qualifications without regard to colour. That bothers some.
I'm actually very well traveled, but nice assumption. I said the South, not specifically Charlotte.
In terms of racism and prejudice, I stated before, that I've found this area to be no different than anywhere else in the country. The politicians -- those in power -- are a different story. The gerrymandering that the Republicans in Raleigh are trying to do for the congressional voting districts is a perfect example. It's been more common in Southern states than Northern ones. In the south you also have fewer programs to help the poor. This is because those in power, again, rather cut their nose to spite their face and prefer to not fund certain social programs lest they help minorities. There has been plenty of analysis on this that's available.
In terms of racism and prejudice, I stated before, that I've found this area to be no different than anywhere else in the country. The politicians -- those in power -- are a different story. The gerrymandering that the Republicans in Raleigh are trying to do for the congressional voting districts is a perfect example. It's been more common in Southern states than Northern ones. In the south you also have fewer programs to help the poor. This is because those in power, again, rather cut their nose to spite their face and prefer to not fund certain social programs lest they help minorities. There has been plenty of analysis on this that's available.
I am not putting words in your mouth; I am asking for clarification:
Are you suggesting that there's institutionalized racism in the South, through a lack of funding for social programs?
I was cheering on my son's soccer team last night in the 1st round of tournament play . My son passed the ball to his teammate of another race and he scored. The whole team cheered as well as all of the parents with kids on the team. I later talked to the parents of the child that scored. All is well here in the burbs.
The value of consensus in this forum is what made me post. Many of the opinions are worthless and rooted in defensiveness, insecurity, ignorance or a combination of all 3. Race is a heavy topic and it's difficult to have meaningful conversations virtually of any significance.
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I'm actually very well traveled, but nice assumption. I said the South, not specifically Charlotte.
In terms of racism and prejudice, I stated before, that I've found this area to be no different than anywhere else in the country. The politicians -- those in power -- are a different story. The gerrymandering that the Republicans in Raleigh are trying to do for the congressional voting districts is a perfect example. It's been more common in Southern states than Northern ones. In the south you also have fewer programs to help the poor. This is because those in power, again, rather cut their nose to spite their face and prefer to not fund certain social programs lest they help minorities. There has been plenty of analysis on this that's available.
I keep seeing the ad for the Republican candidate in the SC special election. I marvel at the racial innuendo in the ad.
It was a flip (but very true)comment/story to a ridiculous and baiting post by a poster that has 4 posts and hadn't posted since 2015. They also haven't been back to the thread so what does that tell you...
I was cheering on my son's soccer team last night in the 1st round of tournament play . My son passed the ball to his teammate of another race and he scored. The whole team cheered as well as all of the parents with kids on the team. I later talked to the parents of the child that scored. All is well here in the burbs.
Okay, now that you have talked -- you seem to imply it's significant that you simply talked to someone of a different race -- consider inviting them to your home. Hang out together, get to know one another on a deeper level. Find out their life experiences and share yours. That's what happens where I live. We're not just acquaintances; we're close friends, in and out of each other's homes. We have potluck dinners together, we take trips together, go out together -- all the things close friends do. We have one another's back all the time. And we talk about everything -- not just soccer scores, but everything. And I mean everything. All those supposedly uncomfortable subjects, we talk about them without fear, because we're friends and we have trust. We share our personal experiences so we better understand one another and understand how our personal experiences shape us individually.
Okay, now that you have talked -- you seem to imply it's significant that you simply talked to someone of a different race -- consider inviting them to your home. Hang out together, get to know one another on a deeper level. Find out their life experiences and share yours. That's what happens where I live. We're not just acquaintances; we're close friends, in and out of each other's homes. We have potluck dinners together, we take trips together, go out together -- all the things close friends do. We have one another's back all the time. And we talk about everything -- not just soccer scores, but everything. And I mean everything. All those supposedly uncomfortable subjects, we talk about them without fear, because we're friends and we have trust. We share our personal experiences so we better understand one another and understand how our personal experiences shape us individually.
We have 8 houses in our cul-de-sac and 4 races represented. We have cul-de-sac BBQ's twice a year, Easter egg hunts, superbowl parties and all of our kids play together.
My comment you quoted was meant to be sarcastic while it is a true story. The OP has 4 post in 4 years and hasn't been back and they are all about race. I looked up the history before posting.
We have 8 houses in our cul-de-sac and 4 races represented. We have cul-de-sac BBQ's twice a year, Easter egg hunts, superbowl parties and all of our kids play together.
My comment you quoted was meant to be sarcastic while it is a true story. The OP has 4 post in 4 years and hasn't been back and they are all about race. I looked up the history before posting.
Thanks though.
Okay, thanks for clarifying. I was unaware oft he OP and didn't see the sarcasm. It sounds like a good neighborhood where you live.
I think the point many are making is not that prejudice is to be shrugged off - it's abhorrent - but they take note that the attitudes of people have progressed, and that's a good thing.
When I was a kid, it was not uncommon to hear an older person make an off comment about race. You might hear such a comment at the neighborhood coffee shop, barber, etc.
I don't hear that anymore.
A friend of mine recollected that in Cumming GA in the 1980's, the Klan was prevalent and active. Now, Cumming GA is a multiethnic, multiracial, highly desirable area.
In short: while more work needs to be done, we're moving in the right direction, and many posters (myself included) are encouraged with what's been accomplished.
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Okay, now that you have talked -- you seem to imply it's significant that you simply talked to someone of a different race -- consider inviting them to your home. Hang out together, get to know one another on a deeper level. Find out their life experiences and share yours. That's what happens where I live. We're not just acquaintances; we're close friends, in and out of each other's homes. We have potluck dinners together, we take trips together, go out together -- all the things close friends do. We have one another's back all the time. And we talk about everything -- not just soccer scores, but everything. And I mean everything. All those supposedly uncomfortable subjects, we talk about them without fear, because we're friends and we have trust. We share our personal experiences so we better understand one another and understand how our personal experiences shape us individually.
