Laural, we've lived here over 30 years, but I'm just giving you my impressions! Some seasons are very different one year to the next, or looking way back to when our children were small.
Nor'Easters--the sort of storm we just had--are much more usual in the fall or winter. Certainly not common in May. During the time we've lived here, nor'easters have caused more problems, along with severe thunderstorms, by far than hurricanes.
Spring can be cool, rainy, warm, sunny--anything! In May though, we go in the direction of more sun and warmer temps. I've known very hot and humid weather even in April, though it usually only lasts a few days. By June, hot and humid will become more common. (This is usually when I threaten to move to northern New England

) In the warmer months, much of our rain comes in the form of thunderstorms, though more recent years have been droughty. Not enough rain to keep the farmers happy. We have been known to go without rain for several weeks some summers.
In general, I think it's a pretty good climate. I don't like hot-humid, but there are compensations in summer. The fall is lovely, though always seems too short. Winters used to be snowier, but many people are happy with almost no white stuff and little ice. I like winter to be winter, but I don't like the heating bills! Spring is renewal, but sometimes turbulent. Not for long though and a lovely progression from daffodils to azaleas to lilacs and roses.....and so many others.