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I think us women look best when we're lean with some definition, but I've always felt that the truly ripped abs were features that men should strive for. While I certainly have nothing against the women with super-shredded abs (I think most women bodybuilders do, in fact, look awesome), I feel that it takes away from one's femininity when they have overly-ripped abs that are so defined and built that you can tell they have a six-pack even if they're wearing a shirt.
I just felt like I needed to reply to this forum because I have struggled much of my life with accepting myself for who I am.
I have always been attracted to athletic and muscular women since I knew what arousal meant. We all grow up surrounded by men and women who believe that 99% of the human male population is either into boobs, into butts, or is gay, and that men are "supposed" to be strong, and women are "supposed" to be weak.
As a result, when I found out what I was attracted to, which really came into fruition when I was about 15, I started hating myself as a long time. I still do. The fact that the only way I knew how to masturbate was to watch a workout video or watch women flexing their muscles, still holds true today. I heard other guys talk about things like pornography, which I am not really in to. I have tried to talk to friends about this, and while none of my close friends had similar attractions to me, they all "accepted me for who I am".
I also don't like to "dominate" or "take control" of a woman...the only times I have ever been turned on by a girl is when they were aggressive and came after me...the submissive types were always a turn-off, and my dick would shrivel up the more I had to pursue. So essentially, I am a submissive male who likes muscular women. I have tried to accept myself for a long time and have failed. Also I am a virgin and am 26 years old because I have not met a woman who I like who feels the same about me. If anyone has advice please post
A woman with a six pack, or defined abs is absolutely SEXY and BEAUTIFUL. Im a guy and I prefer a woman with defined abs. We are not talking huge bodybuilder types, we are talking healthy, athletic, fitness types which are COMPLETELY different than bodybuilders.
Most women I know as well would die to have abs like this because they also find it sexy.
I personally, don't find it that attractive. Ive gone out with women with define six packs and it was just strange; almost boyish. I prefer a bit of marbling on my women.
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