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Keep the chest hair, but for Petes sake, show your teeth when you smile. In the animal kingdom it may be perceived as either weakeness or threatening, but in humans it makes you appear more approachable.
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The next thing is to develop yourself. Get really good at some things. Quality attracts quality.
Develop a sense of humor. Don't be a braggart.
I can't stress enough that the quality of your mind and character influences your attractiveness more than anything else, unless you are interested yourself only in outward appearance.
But there is nothing more boring than an attractive person with no conversational skills or developed personality.
Well versed in manners. Genuine . Good cologne ...and a wit to ease the day.
I've been a firm believer that how someone treats a waiter can make or break a date. And I don't mean in tipping.
Most irresistible guy I dated had me genuinely laughing and was equally charming. He never strayed from being himself. I liked that about him. Easy going .
Brains, ambition, honesty, being connected, interested, involved and balanced. Good looks don't hurt and being somewhat exotic, mysterious, independent and entrancing also helps.
Wait a minute! I just described my wife. Imaging that.
I like those characteristics and you're seems like a beautiful catch, I'm happy for you
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Ok I'll state my attraction criteria
Kind to me, wants to be around me, decent person, has self respect, wants to live, is not seeking dangerous people or circumstances, (my last gf was like that, she had it out for herself. She wanted to be in pain. quite disturbing the things she would put herself through. I'm still a little bugged by that) In other words, don't be a masochist. That's all I ask
Damn that's sad that you have people that remain miserable due to fallout's in life. See I would be the type of person to help someone like that but in the process get crushed
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Maybe they're staring at you because you're taking selfies in front of a beer case in a wife beater.
Maybe lol
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Originally Posted by TJenkins602
I kept bringing up my ex for one thing and how hurt I was over the relationship ended. Needless to say, it got old for her fast. Had a few arguments which was my fault for the most part. At some point, we decided to "take a break".
We still keep in contact, though.
I feel sad that your girl called you ugly. One thing that I have to remember is that looks are subjective. There are going to people that find you handsome/beautiful, while others find you "ugly". Then for some people, their perspective changes with time.
For instance, there are some women that I wouldn't have given a second look 10 years ago that I find myself attracted to.
Damn I feel like I could learn a lot from you and some others here because that does make sense. There was a time my ex saw me as hot stuff and would want to be around me 24/7 but then things changed to the point I was lucky to see her once a month smh
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I'm sure it was just a one time thing.
Well.... lol maybe a few times sweety
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