Thanks Baggiegenes
Here is my perspective on your thoughts
1)
the crazy drivers-Chicago has them, Atlanta has them-it's universal in most large megopolisis. The hardest thing to discover will be to see if there are any reverse commuting patterns going suburb to suburb when I visit clients. In chicago I can start mornings from the north end of I-294 (Tri-State Tollway) and go south and can go south to north around the entire Metro area in the afternoon with only moderate increase in traffic. IF i did this the opposite way, I would be stuck in heavy traffic.
2)
lack of public transportation-I will miss Metra, but really don't use it. Maybe this will improve in the future.
3)
the heat in the summers more than the humidity. Chicago can get hot. I will miss the free air-conditioning our Canadian friends send during the summer BUT won't miss the fact they keep sending the cold air down all winter

4)
the unpredictable rain during late summer afternoons-one of the side effects of a sub-tropical area, I won't have to use as much city water to sprinkle the garden.
5)
finding something to do with all the heavy sweaters and coats she never uses down here- A happy donation for the homeless/less fortunate to use during winter. Will need to keep some for possible Christmas visits back home.
Her likes in the city are:
1)Lots to do at affordable prices. Even the zoo and museums are cheaper. There is also lots of good theater and even improv comedy that is comperable to chicago. Plenty of places to eat and good bars to hang out in.
2)friendlier people in general. She wasn't as used to so many people holding doors and offering to help her with carrying groceries and stuff- I lived in Georgia for 8 months and really enjoyed the public manners people displayed. Sounds like Texans are pretty hospitable.
3)cost of living. we are buying a good sized house in the burbs for half the cost her friends are paying for one bedroom condos in chicago. #1-A reason for going to Texas.
4)the mild winters #1-B reason for going to Texas.
hope this helps some.
This does help a lot. Thanks for sharing and for the response AND thanks to all who participated via other threads-I have learned a tremendous amount just listening to y'all's (Is that spelled correctly?) conversations!