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Originally Posted by jman07
You do realize that this is not how reference checking is done. The interviewer directly asks for references and contact information and lets you know that they are going to call them. They don't try to be slick and just ask for your former supervisors name without letting you know they are going to try to dig up their info and call them. There are never any "retraction" issues because employers are always upfront about the process.
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J, Hello.....
Yes, I do 'realize' how reference checking is done and you have now experienced one of them.
If this is so bothersome to you, why did you not decline giving references until they are either formally asked for or you had been given a F2F, first?
You made your bed and the horses have already left the barn; criticizing the process won't make you any money and if you had a concern, it seems to me that during the phone interview would have been the time to mention it.
Second point first-
"Employers are always upfront...."
Key word being "always". I have a problem with that, especially after thirty years of executive search. Additionally, suggesting you know how "always" is defined, then that means you know the hiring process of all companies. You don't, therefore you don't know what is "always" done.
First point-
"...They don't try to be slick..."
In the first place, "slick" or not, asking for references -no matter how they are requested- generally means the Interviewer/HA is going to call your reference.
What else would they be doing with the information?
Secondly, "slick" is a characterization. It could turn out that is the person's style and does not consider how what s/he did can be considered as anything but obvious in its intent. It's obvious to me, especially with those thirty years experience I keep mentioning.
Presumably, you had done your preparation and had your references all lined up. If s/he 'caught you off guard', then you were not prepared. It doesn't matter how you were asked as long as s/he was not rude and even then, however the Interviewer asks is not, as I've said here at here before at C-D, necessarily a representation of anyone else or anyone else's style at that company.
Thirdly- "slick"? So what? How does that change or affect anything?
Anyone interviewing ought to have references ready.
The Interviewer asked for them, you gave them to her/him.
Getting hung up on this is not productive. You can note this as part of the interview experience but unless this 'style' is repeated by others during the interview process, there is nothing more to comment on.
I've been told here I am 'just naturally' on the side of the Employer [because I'm in the Search business and am paid by employers] but honestly, there are a million permutations to what goes on in the hiring process and this is just one of them. Since being focused on the end goal is what gets me paid, it seems that being focused on your end goal is where you ought to be spending your time and energy so you get hired or have the option of declining an Offer.
There are a lot of people out there who interviewed and did not get asked for references, were not made an Offer and were not hired.
So far, you are ten times better off than that.
I know from being here off and on for a while, this forum is also used for venting.
So even if I were inclined to say, "Gee! That was rude!", nothing changes. There are no actions you can take that will improve your odds of getting an Offer until you are in the interview. Nothing has 'gone wrong'......you were asked for a reference and you gave one. Presumably, you were prepared for that eventuality and if not, then that is where the lesson lies.
You still have a job to do and need to keep your eye on the ball.
Interview and get hired/get an Offer-
those are your priorities.
Paul......
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