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So SourD...is bi-polar a prerequisite to being one of your girlfriends??You said you can spot "them" a mile away...sounds to me like that's what you want?...You're not doing this women any favors by using her..just because she's bipolar doesn't mean she's a bad person...maybe if she met the right man, he would take the time to get her stabalized on her meds...and she would be everthing he's ever wanted....
I have dated some in the past and it ALWAYS turned out the same. They are awesome at first, have such a great outgoing attitude, funny, cute and very sexual. All traits I adore, but after a while they turn into my worst nightmare. They become elusive, abusive and cheat. They also always seem to be the most professional manipulators and liars. The reason I am writing this post is because I recently met another one of those types. She's stunningly beautiful but she scares the cr@p out of me. She knows how to talk things up and give me high hopes, but I don't think I can trust her as far as I can throw her at this point. She tells me things about how she has had only abusive relationships and now she is ready for a simpler more "normal" life, which I know I can give to her if she is accepting to it since I have a career and own a home, which she says is what she wants. I just have this gut feeling that is eating my stomach alive, that what she says is just too good to be true. I am basing that on my past experiences with the same types of women, I do know, that just maybe she is being sincere. for any adSometimes I think I'm the crazy one because I seem to attract these types and fall for them for the excitement they bring, but that has always been in the short term. So what to do, RUN RUN RUN or wait and see how things work out? Most advice I see is to run as far away as possible, but I am REALLY attracted to her. Thanks vice.
First of all, what you are describing is not bi-polar in the least. It's personality, driven by external factor, which. of course, can be attributed to many things in one's life. Bi-polar is a very real internal physical problem.
I am going to agree with your bolded statement. If you are constantly attracting or being attracted to the same type of woman over and over as you say, ask yourself - what's the common denominator? That, of course, would be you. For whatever reason, good or bad, you are attracted to a certain 'type' of person, or your selection criterea is flawed somewhere.
Most people do find attraction with a specific 'type' of person. I remember my own brother dating these girls in high school and you'd swear they all looked alike. My fathr, too, has been married three times and two and three were the same size and shape and same color of hair - just all around similar. My aunt and I were talking about it one time and discovered my uncles actually were attracted to the same type of person as my brother and father - all of them looked alike and acted the same way.
I'd say you need to simply step back and look for the common link between all of them and your need to select these types of women. But, please, stop referring them as bi-polar.
I have dated some in the past and it ALWAYS turned out the same. They are awesome at first, have such a great outgoing attitude, funny, cute and very sexual. All traits I adore, but after a while they turn into my worst nightmare. They become elusive, abusive and cheat. They also always seem to be the most professional manipulators and liars. The reason I am writing this post is because I recently met another one of those types. She's stunningly beautiful but she scares the cr@p out of me. She knows how to talk things up and give me high hopes, but I don't think I can trust her as far as I can throw her at this point. She tells me things about how she has had only abusive relationships and now she is ready for a simpler more "normal" life, which I know I can give to her if she is accepting to it since I have a career and own a home, which she says is what she wants. I just have this gut feeling that is eating my stomach alive, that what she says is just too good to be true. I am basing that on my past experiences with the same types of women, I do know, that just maybe she is being sincere. Sometimes I think I'm the crazy one because I seem to attract these types and fall for them for the excitement they bring, but that has always been in the short term. So what to do, RUN RUN RUN or wait and see how things work out? Most advice I see is to run as far away as possible, but I am REALLY attracted to her. Thanks for any advice.
I have dated some in the past and it ALWAYS turned out the same. They are awesome at first, have such a great outgoing attitude, funny, cute and very sexual. All traits I adore, but after a while they turn into my worst nightmare. They become elusive, abusive and cheat. They also always seem to be the most professional manipulators and liars. The reason I am writing this post is because I recently met another one of those types. She's stunningly beautiful but she scares the cr@p out of me. She knows how to talk things up and give me high hopes, but I don't think I can trust her as far as I can throw her at this point. She tells me things about how she has had only abusive relationships and now she is ready for a simpler more "normal" life, which I know I can give to her if she is accepting to it since I have a career and own a home, which she says is what she wants. I just have this gut feeling that is eating my stomach alive, that what she says is just too good to be true. I am basing that on my past experiences with the same types of women, I do know, that just maybe she is being sincere. Sometimes I think I'm the crazy one because I seem to attract these types and fall for them for the excitement they bring, but that has always been in the short term. So what to do, RUN RUN RUN or wait and see how things work out? Most advice I see is to run as far away as possible, but I am REALLY attracted to her. Thanks for any advice.
If someone needs has to take pills to be "normal" RUN!!!!
Pills only create othere problems and their brain can't settle on any decision they make, they play the victim.
I have known several people, both men and women and over many years, who have been diagnosed as bipolar (formerly known as manic-depressives) but your posit that you continuously attract bipolar women just isn't in the least bit credible. With all due respect I don't have a chance right now to go through your previous posts to get an idea from whence you come but methinks you're totally misusing the bipolar label which indicates considerable ignorance on your part but which excuse might in turn be your explanation for your possible lack of dating success. Pure speculation and I really must run off now. Cheers!
Way off base here. Maybe I attract them because I'm outgoing and fun and exude reckless behavior at times.
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