GURL, you will NOT care who is in the room except for the one little person who isn't in the room yet, so-to-speak. You get your mom in there or your sister or someone who won't mind you cussing about what you'll do to your husband if he ever does that to you again.
This is a small thing compared to what you may one day have to face alone with him being military. He needs to focus on matters at hand and know you're doing okay. Do not guilt that man, he has to focus on tech school and do well there. If he messes up and gets held back it will take even longer to come home!! (Hope you get a great duty station!)