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Old 01-23-2019, 10:20 PM
 
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I feel like I’m in trouble.

I’m in mid 50’s, About to file for divorce (settlement agreement) after 24 years, no minor children, Spouse is moved out, spouse contributes $0 to mortgage, I recently Lost my $70k job.
$10K cash in bank, (plus retirement savings)
$2K mortgage payment includes tax/insurance
$235k approx home value.
$164K principle balance.
No other debts.
House needs to be sold.
$10-20k various repairs and improvements that should be done before house is on market for sale.

What are my options?
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Old 01-23-2019, 10:57 PM
 
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You should definitely contact an actual financial adviser instead of random people on the internet.
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Old 01-23-2019, 11:15 PM
 
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I feel like I’m in trouble.

I’m in mid 50’s, About to file for divorce (settlement agreement) after 24 years, no minor children, Spouse is moved out, spouse contributes $0 to mortgage, I recently Lost my $70k job.
$10K cash in bank, (plus retirement savings)
$2K mortgage payment includes tax/insurance
$235k approx home value.
$164K principle balance.
No other debts.
House needs to be sold.
$10-20k various repairs and improvements that should be done before house is on market for sale.

What are my options?
Move to a different state, you're pretty much in the worst possible area you could be. Facts.
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Old 01-24-2019, 02:56 AM
 
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Sell house and find a apartment, then find a woman that has a house and some money looking for a man to keep her company and then move in to her house.
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Old 01-24-2019, 03:00 AM
 
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You should definitely contact an actual financial adviser instead of random people on the internet.
This !
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Old 01-24-2019, 03:02 AM
 
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Move to a different state, you're pretty much in the worst possible area you could be. Facts.

BS, fact!
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Old 01-24-2019, 04:51 AM
 
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How do you pay $2k per month on a $200k house???
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Old 01-24-2019, 06:15 AM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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How do you pay $2k per month on a $200k house???
He lives in NJ. The property taxes must be ugly.

OP, you should sell the house as is. Every month you carry it, your resources dwindle. Look for a new job in a low COL state. Now is great time for a fresh start and new beginnings. Go tend bar in a beach until you get your bearings. It’s all about you now.
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Old 01-24-2019, 04:35 PM
 
Location: Mid-Atlantic
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He lives in NJ. The property taxes must be ugly.

OP, you should sell the house as is. Every month you carry it, your resources dwindle. Look for a new job in a low COL state. Now is great time for a fresh start and new beginnings. Go tend bar in a beach until you get your bearings. It’s all about you now.
They're brutal. Even in nasty, run down towns they aren't low. My son has been thinking about buying for a few years. He's been looking for small, older places which he can spruced up a bit and eventually sell. A house that costs $120,000 is saddled with $4,500 in taxes? He's not buying.
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Old 01-24-2019, 04:36 PM
 
Location: Mid-Atlantic
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You should definitely contact an actual financial adviser instead of random people on the internet.
He needs a lawyer.
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