When a guy says "I love you" too quickly (spouse, dynamics)

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Hey People! I know you guys probably hate me, but I am just posting another question out of curiosity, that is all. I am not serious about this question, just merely looking for other peoples opinions is all. Just wanted to clarify that, thank you!!!

Usually it's alarming to me when a guy says he loves me too quickly. Especially since I am not even dating the guy, i'm just friends with him. So, just out of curiosity, I wanted to see what others think. Also I just don't say anything back, is that ok? Or is that rude? I will just smile or laugh, but I NEVER say it back for multiple reasons. One is that I am uncomfortable with my emotions, so I rather do things associated with love than actually say it, I know it's weird.

What makes guys say "I love you" quickly? Or everytime he sees the girl he says it? Of course I have an idea why, but I am just wondering from a guy's perspective what they think of it. Do you do that to a girl? If so what are your motives? Also are my reactions considered rude? Please comment! I would love to hear everyones opinions!

[Thirty All]

It's a joke. I must say, it's more prevalent among gays in my experience, but it's obviously not love as in l-o-v-e. It's just the "OMG THANK YOU I LOVE YOU" type love

[CSD610]

Originally Posted by NYCNikki

Hey People! I know you guys probably hate me, but I am just posting another question out of curiosity, that is all. I am not serious about this question, just merely looking for other peoples opinions is all. Just wanted to clarify that, thank you!!!

Usually it's alarming to me when a guy says he loves me too quickly. Especially since I am not even dating the guy, i'm just friends with him. So, just out of curiosity, I wanted to see what others think. Also I just don't say anything back, is that ok? Or is that rude? I will just smile or laugh, but I NEVER say it back for multiple reasons. One is that I am uncomfortable with my emotions, so I rather do things associated with love than actually say it, I know it's weird.

What makes guys say "I love you" quickly? Or everytime he sees the girl he says it? Of course I have an idea why, but I am just wondering from a guy's perspective what they think of it. Do you do that to a girl? If so what are your motives? Also are my reactions considered rude? Please comment! I would love to hear everyones opinions!

It is curious that you are "only curious" about answers yet you ask specific questions about your reactions to a specific scenario. One does not generally know for sure how they will react to a particular situation unless they are in that particular situation at the moment.

When one says they love you it generally means they love you within the specific dynamics of one's relationship be it friend, spouse, lover, sister, brother, etc. It does not always mean "I am in love with you and want you to be my romantic partner".