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Old 01-05-2015, 03:17 PM
Status: "Just livin' day by day" (set 27 days ago)
 
Location: USA
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I don't they're officially divorced. Or maybe she seems to think the marriage will eventually work out. The dude is a loser. I wish she could see it. How does a smart, beautiful, educated young woman attach herself to a man that has just got out of prison, has no car because he isn't allowed to drive and lacks employment. Its not his first bid either since they been together. And by beautiful, my friend spent is 9/10 smokin' hot.

She had told me things weren't going great then I see a picture of them on FB spending New Year's Eve together. For whatever reason, she likes having a man by her side no matter how crappy things are.

I have to wonder how serious her "husband" is about fixing their marriage after seeing his profile on a dating site
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Old 01-05-2015, 04:10 PM
 
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MYOB


She's an adult. Don't get involved.
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Old 01-05-2015, 04:16 PM
 
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My advice to you is to get off Facebook. It seems to upset you.
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Old 01-05-2015, 04:22 PM
 
Location: NYC
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MYOB


She's an adult. Don't get involved.
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Old 01-05-2015, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Is OP a jealous guy friend perhaps??

MYOB like others said.
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Old 01-05-2015, 04:28 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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I don't they're officially divorced. Or maybe she seems to think the marriage will eventually work out. The dude is a loser. I wish she could see it. How does a smart, beautiful, educated young woman attach herself to a man that has just got out of prison, has no car because he isn't allowed to drive and lacks employment. Its not his first bid either since they been together. And by beautiful, my friend spent is 9/10 smokin' hot.

She had told me things weren't going great then I see a picture of them on FB spending New Year's Eve together. For whatever reason, she likes having a man by her side no matter how crappy things are.

I have to wonder how serious her "husband" is about fixing their marriage after seeing his profile on a dating site


Really, you need to MYOB and get your own life.
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Old 01-05-2015, 04:33 PM
Status: "Just livin' day by day" (set 27 days ago)
 
Location: USA
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Is OP a jealous guy friend perhaps??

MYOB like others said.
Im a woman. Yes, I will. Got involved before and that ended badly. Still beat myself up over it.
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Old 01-05-2015, 04:37 PM
 
Location: USA
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It may not be typical, but sometimes a newly divorced couple can have an intimate relationship. It doesn't work for everyone, but for some, it does. It keeps them from going out and doing something stupid.
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Old 01-05-2015, 04:38 PM
 
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Be there as a friend to your friend.

Her love life might upset you.
Compartmentalize your friendship.

Her love life, put away in a box on the shelf.
You two being friends, hanging put, whatever is what you do.
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Old 01-05-2015, 04:47 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Got involved before and that ended badly.
So why are you getting involved - even if just emotionally - again?
Learn from your mistakes.
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