Does this mean my friend doesn't care about my birthday (male, acquaintance)

[Kibbiekat]

Originally Posted by kittycat40

Thanks I would love to meet you as well. I hope your day has been going well.

Are you going to answer any of the questions you've been asked, or provide any clarification if posters are making assumptions?

Are you on the autism spectrum? Aspergers?

Are you gay or bisexual?

Are you transitioning?

Are you previous threads about this same friend or someone different?

[kittycat40]

Originally Posted by Kibbiekat

Are you going to answer any of the questions you've been asked, or provide any clarification if posters are making assumptions?

Are you on the autism spectrum? Aspergers?

Are you gay or bisexual?

Are you transitioning?

Are you previous threads about this same friend or someone different?

Answer to all your questions is NO

[Mattie]

Originally Posted by kittycat40

Answer to all your questions is NO

I was hoping you were on the spectrum, to be honest. I'm not sure how an adult ends up being clueless to social mores otherwise. You have a tough road ahead kittycat, unless you learn to read people better.

[Kibbiekat]

Originally Posted by kittycat40

Answer to all your questions is NO

Well, then I'm really puzzled at your obsession over this "friend" and you lack of understanding his social cues, and you lack of understanding about what everyone here is telling you.

[puginabug]

Originally Posted by kittycat40

Answer to all your questions is NO

Ok, and again....how old will you be on your birthday, 10/6/15. ???

[kittycat40]

Originally Posted by Kibbiekat

Well, then I'm really puzzled at your obsession over this "friend" and you lack of understanding his social cues, and you lack of understanding about what everyone here is telling you.

So what are the social cues he providing me. Cause everyone in this thread seems to have a different opinion on the original post

[maciesmom]

Does this mean my friend doesn't care about my birthday?

After reading all of this, what it boils down to and in a way you can understand it: "yes".

Your friend is not interested in your birthday.

[rugrats2001]

Originally Posted by kittycat40

Here's what I bought him for his birthday!
Double Wall Traveler Mug - Siren, 16 fl oz | Starbucks® Store

That is nice. I hope he at least appreciated it at the time.

[luv my dayton]

Excuse me folks Im still trying to figure out the gender and age of op and if this so called friend and or acquaintance is even aware of whats happening here and the stretch thats being made by op. Do agree a friend would already have known when a birthday was due. Some people are close friends,some are just kinda friends,others are just someone they know. By the way who really calls or texts who in this aquaintenceship?

[luv my dayton]

Originally Posted by kittycat40

I agree except my circumstance is a little different.

After I gave him his Christmas gift he said we got to go get dinner.

Leave the guy alone hes trying politely to put distance between the both of you. You want some kind of loyalty because you bought him a coffee mug? Thats your fault for buying the gift and am sure he had no plans on exchanging with you. Your trying to force an issue and he isnt biting.