Overbearing Neighbor

[Mightyqueen801]

Originally Posted by applej3

.....Sigh....Whatever.

Your story should be a SEPARATE thread.

And good luck.

Yes, sorry, didn't mean for it to become a separate conversation.

Apologies, OP. Carry on.

[RogueMom]

Originally Posted by moonlightz

He is really nice and I don't want to offend him.

There's your problem right there. "Nice" people, don't make others feel uncomfortable.

YOUR comfort, YOUR safety, YOUR right to privacy and your right to be left alone if you so choose come before his "feelings".

Take it from one who knows.

[applej3]

Originally Posted by RogueMom

There's your problem right there. "Nice" people, don't make others feel uncomfortable.

YOUR comfort, YOUR safety, YOUR right to privacy and your right to be left alone if you so choose come before his "feelings".

Take it from one who knows.

Bingo.

[MZMpac]

Just a little tidbit here, men never want to "be friends" with a woman that bad...not ever. If they come on that strong, they have ulterior motives.

He is obviously interested in you sexually/romantically, or perhaps wants something else from you. If ignoring doesnt get the message across you're going to have to have an awkward conversation.

[applej3]

Time and time again people go to forums and lay out a problem about how someone is bothering/harassing/offending them. Then they say the offender is a friend or that the offender is "nice", and that they don't want to 'offend' that person. The ridiculousness of such logic is mind-boggling.

While it's usually women, men sometimes use the same excuse.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by Mightyqueen801

Yes, sorry, didn't mean for it to become a separate conversation.

Apologies, OP. Carry on.

Well, I enjoyed the slight digression. And heck, we have to do something to pass the time until the OP returns...

OP? Update? Comments? Anything?

[janellen]

OP should tell the guy she's a lesbian and she think's his wife is really HOT!