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Well, today I click on my FB notifications and SHE'S ASKING TO BE A "FRIEND"
Last time we spoke it was 2010, I was recovering from a CHF. She'd been nasty previously and so I was rude to her and the call ended quickly.
I'm not too sure I want this to happen. Yet I wrote her years ago asking she forgive me for not being a older brother and a cheering squad.
I'm halfway expecting her to trash me, but she could have done that long ago.......Did she have a change of heart? Is she dying from a disease? I know that I'm the only one that has to answer this, it's just like when the President got elected. I'm stunned....Really stunned....
Well, today I click on my FB notifications and SHE'S ASKING TO BE A "FRIEND"
Last time we spoke it was 2010, I was recovering from a CHF. She'd been nasty previously and so I was rude to her and the call ended quickly.
I'm not too sure I want this to happen. Yet I wrote her years ago asking she forgive me for not being a older brother and a cheering squad.
I'm halfway expecting her to trash me, but she could have done that long ago.......Did she have a change of heart? Is she dying from a disease? I know that I'm the only one that has to answer this, it's just like when the President got elected. I'm stunned....Really stunned....
She's your family and she reached out to you. I doubt that she's reaching out to you so she can trash you. She may just miss you. You'll never know until you connect with her. Truth is, family can be just down right crazy but it's the family you were born in to. We just don't get a choice. But I was raised to believe you love them unconditionally and you should always be there for each other. It's just the way I was raised.
I don't use Farcebook myself, but if I understand it correctly a friend request is pretty benign. Is granting the request going to change your life significantly or just let her view photos and content YOU post? Aren't there different "levels" of sharing? Maybe all she wants is an avenue to keep in touch. She may not have any plans to become more involved with you and you do not have to permit that if you choose not to. You can always decide to block her if things go south.
Now, if she asked to move into your house that's another kettle of fish entirely.
She obviously wants to connect before she dies. Call HER! Make peace/reconnect before it's too late.
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