My mom has told me I need to wear bras when I'm at home (present, neighbors)
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Funny how a simple piece of clothing has people’s panties in a bunch. I really don’t get the issue as long as she’s covered. If things are gonna go south with this guy in the house... I seriously doubt that the presence of a bra or lack there of is going to make a difference.
And if the mom is worried about her daughter being vulnerable because she’s sans bra.... Why have this guy in the house to begin with? Potentially putting her daughter in harms way and then worrying that perhaps her daughter is in harms way.
Last edited by Sydney123; 05-02-2019 at 04:12 PM..
The idea that someone "doesn't look respectable" without a bra is your opinion.
I think I look just fine. Most of the time, I wear baggy t-shirts and other clothes where it would be impossible to tell I was even wearing or not wearing a bra. It doesn't even show.
Plus, a lot of you aren't considering that many dresses and halter tops and other styles of clothing aren't meant to be worn with a bra. Wearing a bra under a halter top means the entire back of the bra would show. That looks much trashier and not-put-together than just wearing the top as it was designed.
Either way, OP should move out. The idea that she should be fully covered at all times in her own home is insane.
It's certainly her prerogative to do so if she doesn't want to do as her mother asks her to. Just so she's aware she should probably live alone if she doesn't want to compromise for other people because her new roomate might not like her swinging free in front of brothers, fathers or boyfriends either.
It's certainly her prerogative to do so if she doesn't want to do as her mother asks her to. Just so she's aware she should probably live alone if she doesn't want to compromise for other people because her new roomate might not like her swinging free in front of brothers, fathers or boyfriends either.
So breasts are something to be ashamed of now? I wonder more about the people looking at someone else's chest area to see whether or not they are "swinging free." The girl is not walking around topless so anything else is no one's business but her own. If the mother is so worried about her boarder ogling her daughter in her own home, maybe she should not have rented to him in the first place. Everyone has the right to be comfortable in their own home even the children/teenager/young adult whomever. How is this girl not wearing a bra hurting anyone?
Everyone keeps saying the mother's house the mother's rules - so if the mother decides her daughter should wear a burka that would be fine. Or, how about a slacks only and no shorts or skirts rule? If the mom trusts this male boarder enough to live in her home around her daughter, then what is she so worried about? If he is a slavering pervert, it won't matter what the daughter wears or doesn't wear.
Especially, true if he is immature or about the same age as the OP. It's a lack of judgement on boundaries.
If her mother is suggesting wearing a bra, then I assume, the OP isn't a flat chested. If she plans on living in a co-ed dorm (as most college have), she'll have to wear a bra all the time . It's just life.
Seriously? That's just ridiculous! She can live in a coed dorm and wear a bra if she wants to and not wear a bra if she doesn't want to. NO one can be forced to wear a bra at college.
Especially, true if he is immature or about the same age as the OP. It's a lack of judgement on boundaries.
If her mother is suggesting wearing a bra, then I assume, the OP isn't a flat chested. If she plans on living in a co-ed dorm (as most college have), she'll have to wear a bra all the time . It's just life.
Don’t know what college you went to, but when I was at university.. I think there were more girls going without than with. Lol
I hardly ever wore a bra to school and I was a C cup. Never once was I called out on it from teachers or school Administrators.
I am just looking for some advice as I'm a little confused
This was the closest forum section that I could find so I hope I'm posting it in the correct one
Basically I've never had bras on when I am at home ever as it's much more comfortable without
But my mom has recently rented a room out in the house to a guy. He's a normal nice guy
I don't run around with anything sexy or stupid. I am fully clothed and wearing a comfortable top but I just don't wear bras underneath
But the thing she has told me that now hes here that I need to have one on but I don't want to be uncomfortable at home
I was hoping just to get opinions on if this is true or is she just freaking out and being silly about it?
Hoping someone will agree with me. But I might be wrong so that's why I'm posting
Thanks
I'm actually relieved. I thought you were going to say she wanted you to wear a bra due to her husband - a stepdad.
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I thought it was your stepdad
