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Old 05-04-2019, 12:47 PM
 
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I graduated HS in '05. In my senior year I ended up cutting a girls hair, a chunk of it. I didn't have any beef with her or anything, I just did. I have talked to her recently and apologized and she accepted it, but I asked her out on a date and she didn't respond at all.
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Old 05-04-2019, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Cutting out a chunk of someone's hair is psycho. You can't just do that and expect people to be ok with you after that.

Last edited by Miss Blue; 05-04-2019 at 02:43 PM.. Reason: off topic
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Old 05-04-2019, 12:58 PM
 
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maybe if you cut her leg off....she'd go on the date and want her leg back
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Old 05-04-2019, 01:01 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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I graduated HS in '05. In my senior year I ended up cutting a girls hair, a chunk of it. I didn't have any beef with her or anything, I just did. I have talked to her recently and apologized and she accepted it, but I asked her out on a date and she didn't respond at all.
A classmate cut some of my daughter's hair when they were in four year old kindergarten. He got into huge trouble with his parents, plus was sent to the principal's office for a severe "talking to". He apologized to our daughter and his parents even contacted us to apologize. Heck, even the teacher got into (a little) trouble because she didn't notice it before it happened. But, all was forgiven and forgotten because both of them were only four years old.


You were a teenager and you had no excuse to do something so inappropriate.
At the HS that my children attended I am sure that you would have been suspended and probably they would have involved the police in a physical assault like that. And, you still treat it like a joke even now that you are in your 30s. Man, oh, man!!! Once a self-centered, egotistical jerk always a self-centered, egotistical jerk. If it had happened to me I wouldn't respond to you either. Sheesh!
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Old 05-04-2019, 02:12 PM
 
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Maybe you are not the catch of the day 14 years later.
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Old 05-04-2019, 02:35 PM
 
Location: on the wind
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Maybe you are not the catch of the day 14 years later.
Or never were. You know what they say:

"Some things never change."
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Old 05-04-2019, 02:40 PM
 
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I graduated HS in '05. In my senior year I ended up cutting a girls hair, a chunk of it. I didn't have any beef with her or anything, I just did. I have talked to her recently and apologized and she accepted it, but I asked her out on a date and she didn't respond at all.
Accepting an apology is not an invitation to be involved with you. If you apologized just so you could ask her out she may have seen your apology as not genuine, but either way, she is not interested.
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Old 05-04-2019, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Alexandria, VA
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Still having trouble believing this is a legitimate post and not something from a 12 yr. old.
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Old 05-04-2019, 02:47 PM
 
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Accepting an apology is not an invitation to be involved with you. If you apologized just so you could ask her out she may have seen your apology as not genuine, but either way, she is not interested.
I totally agree. I'm not sure what you are looking for, but she doesn't sound interested in you. Apologizing was a good step, I'm glad you did it. But that puts her under no obligation to date you. I would be really wary of a teenager who cut off a chunk of my hair for no reason whatsoever. And if you haven't had any contact with her in the interim, she has no reason to have any different opinion of you.

I hope you're not still doing stuff like that.
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Old 05-04-2019, 03:04 PM
 
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I totally agree. I'm not sure what you are looking for, but she doesn't sound interested in you. Apologizing was a good step, I'm glad you did it. But that puts her under no obligation to date you. I would be really wary of a teenager who cut off a chunk of my hair for no reason whatsoever. And if you haven't had any contact with her in the interim, she has no reason to have any different opinion of you.

I hope you're not still doing stuff like that.
But we were all teenagers, teens do all sorts of dumb and stupid stuff.
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