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I have no idea why you'd call that neighbor a friend. Screaming, yelling, calling you names, accusing you of lying, getting nosy in your business? That is no friend. Tell him to GET LOST.
Btw, this Christian believes 100% in the scriptures except when it comes to sex which he sees as no big thing because hey, ppl sin, right?! He's tried many times to hook up but I can't have sex outside a loving, very commited relationship. Do you think this could be a reason why he went off on me?
Don't let him shag you. He might aggravate your body problems
Besides, 100% christian or not, when "Mister Cecilia" goes stiff, he takes precedence over any 1000 page book
OP------part of your biography says "life is too short to waste on regret." And thats true. So let it go and have no regrets!!!!!!
So very true, I guess I should follow my own advice, lol. I wrote him a letter explaining what happened & why I think his behavior is unacceptable & to tell him I'm done & want no contact w/ him. I would have just told him but I'm afraid he'd get violent(I witnessed him curse out an employee at a cell phone store & then smash his phone on the ground). You can only be abused if you let it happen & I'm not signing up for that. Thanks again everyone for the words of encouragement, I greatly appreciate all the advice. And, I just came back from the couple's house and they are not mad in the least and actually went out of their way to find me a new Dr., so all is well.
lilred, you know better than we do, but be careful with this guy. Sounds like a real wacko. I'd hate to hear that he went off on you again, or worse yet, violent.
So very true, I guess I should follow my own advice, lol. I wrote him a letter explaining what happened & why I think his behavior is unacceptable & to tell him I'm done & want no contact w/ him. I would have just told him but I'm afraid he'd get violent(I witnessed him curse out an employee at a cell phone store & then smash his phone on the ground). You can only be abused if you let it happen & I'm not signing up for that. Thanks again everyone for the words of encouragement, I greatly appreciate all the advice. And, I just came back from the couple's house and they are not mad in the least and actually went out of their way to find me a new Dr., so all is well.
Well, I would have just ignored it, but okay....
You're giving him an explaination for something that is ZERO of his business and which he has ZERO entitlement to be hearing in the first place...
If you want no contact with him, why contact him to tell him so?
(Bottom line: Sounds like you're hoping he'll read your explaination and see how mad you are and how wrong he was and come knocking on the door, apologizing profusely for his gross over-reaction.... Admit it..... That's what you're aiming for here.. )
You're giving him an explaination for something that is ZERO of his business and which he has ZERO entitlement to be hearing in the first place...
If you want no contact with him, why contact him to tell him so?
(Bottom line: Sounds like you're hoping he'll read your explaination and see how mad you are and how wrong he was and come knocking on the door, apologizing profusely for his gross over-reaction.... Admit it..... That's what you're aiming for here.. )
I haven't delivered the letter yet but you are 1/2 right. I'm so appalled that someone would think that I would behave in such a foul manner so yeah I do want to set the record straight. However, I do NOT want him to apologize, I don't want him near me. I guess the stubborn part of me wants the last word, lol!
I guess the stubborn part of me wants the last word, lol!
Ahhhhhhhhh yes.... I can see how you might want it in this situation.
1) Right now he somehow believes he's "in the right".
2) If you never talk to him again, he'll keep on assuming he's "in the right".
3) The prospect of seeing him on occasion and knowing that he THINKS he's right is unacceptable.
4) So you are basically searching for a way to explain your side, make him realize that he's wrong, but other than that, maintain the status quo..
Got it....
Geez it's SO immature, but I understand it 100%....
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