Well I am back from AZ and the teen and I are cool and he trusts me as well.
While I was down there he did get suspended again for doing some stupid things and needless to say I wasn't too pleased about it but we had a talk and he knows that what he did even though it was funny it's not cool.
I also got to know his friends and they think I'm cool for giving my cousin rides, looking out for him, etc.
The only issue that I had with him is the fact that he stayed out way past my bedtime and always talking on the phone with his gf until the wee hours in the morning. I had to several times keep reminding him to go to bed as his folks do a bed check to see if he's home or not.
He knows that I do care about him and all that stuff but what I don't understand is why does he not want me to follow his myspace statuses and what not. To him by me checking his statuses he considers it 'stalking' while I consider it 'big brother'. I understand that he doesn't want his family to be up in his business but it's not like I'm going to rat him out because of what he is posting. I might have a talk about it but only if he brings it up otherwise he'll delete his page completely. Little does he know that everything on myspace is public and not private so anybody can view it. I'll still be keeping tabs on him but he can't tell me what I can and can't do but I can for him though