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#1 Is WAY too sensitive and now that she is almost 12 it's becoming a problem because she cries very easily. The great thing is that she is the sweetest kid you'll ever meet and is liked by everyone!
#2 Is the total opposite of #1. She is VERY outgoing which is great, but must have her way which is not so great.
Let me ask, can you change these unlikable traits in your child, or are you just resigned to them?
How much influence does parenting have?
Good question. I don't think as parents we can change those traits, not in my experience at least. I think our children can change themselves to a small extent, if they find the motivation to do so. (My unambitious daughter decided it would be worthwhile to go back to school and finish her degree when she realized that having no ambition at all meant not having any kind of worthwhile life)
I agree with sleepykitten that even the traits we dislike have an upside to them that make them easier to deal with. My daughter's lack of ambition goes hand in hand with a lack of greed or desire for material things, and a willingness to accept people from all walks of life without judging them on superficial things like cars, clothing, status, etc. So it balances out IMO
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