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I think a lot of women who have kids now, wish they could have gone back in time and either kept their legs closed or had an abortion. There are so many women that have kids out of guilt or fear vs actually deciding they want them, and as controversial as it may be, I do believe the theory that America's high crime rate would be less if so many unwanted kids were not born. What else can you expect from a loveless existence but murder and rage?
I think it's normal for a first time mother to have depression and moments of regret because she realizes her freedom is now gone forever.
I think the OP doesn't like women *showing off* their *motherly disposition* for the onlookers' sake, not actually mothers who do love their kids (the title of this thread confuses the two though).
I truly hope you are mistaken, I don't want to think about any woman killing their own child.
You live in a fantasy world where people don't tell the truth. If so, don't spend too much time on the internet, your faith in mankind will dissolve like an ice cube on a skillet.
i have a cousin like that. she doesn't have any kids, because she told me she had an abortion, but she exaggerates and acts really silly with my daughter and any other baby she sees. I think its just her personality. Doesn't bother me, i just laugh at her.
You live in a fantasy world where people don't tell the truth. If so, don't spend too much time on the internet, your faith in mankind will dissolve like an ice cube on a skillet.
I think it's normal for a first time mother to have depression and moments of regret because she realizes her freedom is now gone forever.
I think any Women/Men that even analyzed this though after the baby is born shouldn't have kid at all.
Afterall once the kid is born is all about the baby, you don't have time or energy to think about you, 24/7 is all about the baby and you do it because you want to do it not because you have to do it.
Of couse you can joke about your freedom is gone at a social gathering, but you wouldn't trade a night at a club for a night with your kid.
Thanks nuala. You are absolutely right. I do not mean women with children. I mean young women who do not yet have children. I just feel like society expects woman to fall over themselves when kids are around and some woman, like my friend, play right into this. Sorry for the confusion. I'm new to this.
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