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Our 18mos old has had this since almost birth. It seems we will never get used to it and seems to be getting worse, although we were told up front it would.
B/c I've never heard or it, nor met any other children w/ this, it is so hard to hear from the doctors ( peds, neurologist, etc) that it isn't terribly uncommon.
My son can go a couple weeks w/out one or will have 2/day some weeks..
very scary.
He will stop it when he sees it no longer gets a reaction from you . dont pay any attention to him and he will stop doing this .It is an attention getting issue and they do learn how to manipulate you very young . so just ignore it somewhat and he will stop .
no, no, no...clearly you don't understand what I"m speaking of. This is an INVOLUNTARY spell...a seizure of sorts where the child is just as frantic as the parent, not able to inhale. There's an intense rise in adrenalin, so when he awakes from going unconscious he is sweaty, disoriented, very docile. It is provoked by getting scared or falling ( getting hurt ) or yes, sometimes just getting upset. This is not a tantrum, and it is not the funny little puffing up the cheeks kids might do. this is eyes rolling back, body stiff and contorting, turning pale, then blue and literally going unconscious. He takes a few seconds ( seems forever ) to start breathing again and it's like gasps.
Neurology, cardiology say, however, it is this syndrome and is not going to cause serious, long term harm.
I wish it was a matter of ignoring it...
no, no, no...clearly you don't understand what I"m speaking of. This is an INVOLUNTARY spell...a seizure of sorts where the child is just as frantic as the parent, not able to inhale. There's an intense rise in adrenalin, so when he awakes from going unconscious he is sweaty, disoriented, very docile. It is provoked by getting scared or falling ( getting hurt ) or yes, sometimes just getting upset. This is not a tantrum, and it is not the funny little puffing up the cheeks kids might do. this is eyes rolling back, body stiff and contorting, turning pale, then blue and literally going unconscious. He takes a few seconds ( seems forever ) to start breathing again and it's like gasps.
Neurology, cardiology say, however, it is this syndrome and is not going to cause serious, long term harm.
I wish it was a matter of ignoring it...
So the neurologists don't classify this as seizures? Sounds like complex partial seizures to me...
He will stop it when he sees it no longer gets a reaction from you . dont pay any attention to him and he will stop doing this .It is an attention getting issue and they do learn how to manipulate you very young . so just ignore it somewhat and he will stop .
I know a two year old child that did this, as did his father at this age.
It used to scare everyone to death, until they figured out it was indeed a tantrum gone crazy. Once they ignored it, these spells stopped. I think they lasted about a year or two. He still seems to find unusual ways to get attention though. Sometimes through screaming, clutching fists, or acting out anger. But it is becoming less and less as he has more interaction with friends, pre-school, etc. I will say he is the youngest child in the family. Perhaps he felt left out. But I know the parents pretty well and I never felt he was left out by them. Maybe because the older children didn't always include him.
Here is an article on the subject. I am sure there are others on the Internet, but this one describes what the OP said pretty well, including turning blue.
So the neurologists don't classify this as seizures? Sounds like complex partial seizures to me...
Scroll down to the section "Breath Holding Spells Can Be Frightening" on the page below. It gives a good description of the difference between breath holding and seizure. I would of course rule out seizures. But it sounds like her doctor has.
I know a two year old child that did this, as did his father at this age.
It used to scare everyone to death, until they figured out it was indeed a tantrum gone crazy. Once they ignored it, these spells stopped. I think they lasted about a year or two. He still seems to find unusual ways to get attention though. Sometimes through screaming, clutching fists, or acting out anger. But it is becoming less and less as he has more interaction with friends, pre-school, etc. I will say he is the youngest child in the family. Perhaps he felt left out. But I know the parents pretty well and I never felt he was left out by them. Maybe because the older children didn't always include him.
Here is an article on the subject. I am sure there are others on the Internet, but this one describes what the OP said pretty well, including turning blue.
My cousin used to do that. As a baby and young child, she'd get so mad that she'd hold her breath until she would turn blue and pass out. Her parents would do all they could to keep her from getting so mad. They'd give into her and if she did pass out, she'd awake to hysterical worried parents who of course were presenting her the very thing she wanted.
After many trips to many doctors, the parents finally decided it really might be about getting attention and getting her way. They were told to ignore the fits of anger and when they did, the fits of anger, turning blue finally went away.
The holding of breath is voluntary. When they pass out, they'll begin breathing again because then breathing is involuntary.
no, no, no...clearly you don't understand what I"m speaking of. This is an INVOLUNTARY spell...a seizure of sorts where the child is just as frantic as the parent, not able to inhale. There's an intense rise in adrenalin, so when he awakes from going unconscious he is sweaty, disoriented, very docile. It is provoked by getting scared or falling ( getting hurt ) or yes, sometimes just getting upset. This is not a tantrum, and it is not the funny little puffing up the cheeks kids might do. this is eyes rolling back, body stiff and contorting, turning pale, then blue and literally going unconscious. He takes a few seconds ( seems forever ) to start breathing again and it's like gasps.
Neurology, cardiology say, however, it is this syndrome and is not going to cause serious, long term harm.
I wish it was a matter of ignoring it...
Is it like Asthma? Can you give something while he is having an attack to help him breathe?
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no, no, no...clearly you don't understand what I"m speaking of. This is an INVOLUNTARY spell...a seizure of sorts where the child is just as frantic as the parent, not able to inhale. There's an intense rise in adrenalin, so when he awakes from going unconscious he is sweaty, disoriented, very docile. It is provoked by getting scared or falling ( getting hurt ) or yes, sometimes just getting upset. This is not a tantrum, and it is not the funny little puffing up the cheeks kids might do. this is eyes rolling back, body stiff and contorting, turning pale, then blue and literally going unconscious. He takes a few seconds ( seems forever ) to start breathing again and it's like gasps.
Neurology, cardiology say, however, it is this syndrome and is not going to cause serious, long term harm.
I wish it was a matter of ignoring it...
My first thought after reading the headline was "Easy. Cross your arms and wait it out", but you're talking about a child who expells all the air from the lungs and doesn't breathe until passing out as a response to a startle or other abrupt stimuli, right?
Sounds scary. My heart goes out to you.
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