Hi, I'm not seeing her listed at
Big Yellow.com, but do see a Sue Carpenter in PA. If you do the search, use Susan for the 1st name, put in Browns Mills, NJ 08015, then check the box that says surrounding areas. If I search using last name only, I see two people listed in Browns Mills, a "Crist" at Wenatchi Trail in Country Lakes and an Angela on Dakota Trail in Presidential Lakes.
If you know her boys names, try searching for their names as the last name wouldn't change with marriage. They probably aren't in Browns Mills any more, unless one of the names listed above are the wife of one of them.
I would imagine you would have had better luck if the Korean restaurant was still here, they might be able to give you a lead, but it burned down a few years ago & haven't rebuilt.
Good luck.