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My sons father gets four overnights a month. Last Friday was his weekend. I called him when our child got off the school bus and informed him asthmatic son was sick, struggling to breath and I was taking him to hospital. Let him know where and asked him to meet me and said e could take him afterwards. I get a message back that he refuses to drive to the hospital and I am court ordered to meet him at 6 no matter what... he is as useless as **** on a boar.
And for every story like yours... we have one like mine.
My sons father gets four overnights a month. Last Friday was his weekend. I called him when our child got off the school bus and informed him asthmatic son was sick, struggling to breath and I was taking him to hospital. Let him know where and asked him to meet me and said e could take him afterwards. I get a message back that he refuses to drive to the hospital and I am court ordered to meet him at 6 no matter what... he is as useless as **** on a boar.
You can't make this **** up.
sounds like you offered to meet him at the hospital.
Why exactly would a father whose son is struggling to breathe not automatically WANT to go to the hospital where his son is?
these divorces often develop such bad blood that people turn into total nuts when it comes to anything with their former spouse. its a shame that the kids become pawns in the game of getting back at each other but i still wont automatically assume that the person that posted this hasnt done some spiteful stuff to the guy.
well, for the sake of conversation i can but really i dont just accept that simply because she is the one posting here that she is the one that isnt nuts. (im passing no judgment)
sounds like you offered to meet him at the hospital.
I did and earlier than our scheduled time. And I responded that no judge would condemn me for not getting the child medical care when he was in need. He could take me to court if he so wished...
these divorces often develop such bad blood that people turn into total nuts when it comes to anything with their former spouse. its a shame that the kids become pawns in the game of getting back at each other but i still wont automatically assume that the person that posted this hasnt done some spiteful stuff to the guy.
well, for the sake of conversation i can but really i dont just accept that simply because she is the one posting here that she is the one that isnt nuts. (im passing no judgment)
Haha. Nope. When he left me for another woman, I changed my number, just to stop the harassing texts he would send me. He was crazy for years and I took it as a time to reclaim my freedom. While together, he stole my truck and disappeared to another country.
My stress went down when he was no longer my issue. He has since abused our child. Tried to kill me with our son as a witness. Accused a friend of mine of abusing our son. He has broke into and walked through my house. Our son has seen him handcuffed and arrested twice. And after all that, the man complains because I wont talk to him and share everything. Why would I? He manipulates and lies about everything. I do not even want to speak to him. He has a similar personality as our current POTUS.
CPS was involved in our custody case, and the social worker testified that he needed a mental health evaluation and his involvement with our son was detrimental to our child's welfare. Seriously. Family court services, which is required in my county, pushes for both parents to remain in a childs life, even when one is is crazy, not overly involved or even incarcerated. I even pointed out that the same court person, pushed for my ex husband to have visitation of my oldest child. He received visitation and terminated rights not even 6 months later. My sons father is very similar to my ex husband.
I now have a protection order that lasts until our child is 18, sons father cannot be anywhere near my home or work. I always have to get some to go with me for all pickup and drops offs.
And for every story like yours... we have one like mine.
My sons father gets four overnights a month. Last Friday was his weekend. I called him when our child got off the school bus and informed him asthmatic son was sick, struggling to breath and I was taking him to hospital. Let him know where and asked him to meet me and said e could take him afterwards. I get a message back that he refuses to drive to the hospital and I am court ordered to meet him at 6 no matter what... he is as useless as **** on a boar.
You can't make this **** up.
This weekend was my weekend for my son. Everything is fine then Sunday comes. ( Super Bowl is at 630) Grandpa ( because dad ISNT involved AT ALL ( unless it benefits him)) texts me at 5 " youre bringing him at 530 right? I dont want to miss the game at 6".
so im supposed to work around your football schedule? Get your son ( who has custody) off his butt and have him meet me like hes COURT ORDERED to do!
This weekend was my weekend for my son. Everything is fine then Sunday comes. ( Super Bowl is at 630) Grandpa ( because dad ISNT involved AT ALL ( unless it benefits him)) texts me at 5 " youre bringing him at 530 right? I dont want to miss the game at 6".
so im supposed to work around your football schedule? Get your son ( who has custody) off his butt and have him meet me like hes COURT ORDERED to do!
No, you cant make their stupidity up.
I would not bother taking him if the father is not involved. Grandparents do not get visitation unless they fight for it. Of course, my ex's parents are the type of people you do not want young children to be exposed to, ie: drug addicts, so I do my very best to keep them as far away as possible.
I would not bother taking him if the father is not involved.
I wish it were that easy but in my situation its not.In that case, id NEVER get my son because they do everything, hold all the money that talks and cards that play the system.
BTDT with trying to prove it all. Thanks though!
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