Older people 35 + (home, bars, health)

[wanderlust76]

Originally Posted by PghYinzer

Acacia is a good option too. The prices and atmosphere tend to scare away the young ones.

Also you can try Cabana Bar in Wexford or Rumfish Grill in Bridgeville, both of which are often referred to as “cougar dens"

Meh more like a gold digger den imo, as is a couple of other places in that immediate area. To be expected though being so close to an exclusive golf club community. I think the place is still worth a shot I suppose.

[RRANGEL09]

Originally Posted by Rocket88

If you live in the South Hills, I know the Linden Grove in Castle Shannon tends to get an older crowd of people. I used to go when I was in my late 30s and I felt young. There are a lot of people in their 40s and 50s and older who go there.Linden Grove home
The link has photos and you can see the customers are no spring chickens. Of course, you are never to old to have fun, if you know what I mean.

Wow that looks like a nice little place. I'll have to check that out. Thank you very much.

[RRANGEL09]

Originally Posted by moxiegal

There are fake profiles on EVERY OLD site.

Yeah I'm starting to notice that myself.

[sparrowmint]

Originally Posted by Pitt Chick

You are older than I?
I am in my 60s and have a later bedtime...

Wouldn't it vary depending on what time one's job begins in the morning? I need to get up between 5 and 6 in the morning to be at work by 7 consistently, so I start winding down by 9 at night, despite being a hardwired night owl. Melatonin is my saviour. I am 31.

OP, a lot of people seem to use meetup.com these days. Not really the same thing as a dating site, since people are getting together to do activities and hobbies together (or go see movies or whatever) in groups. They make friendships, and relationships often build from there. It's not something I use, but I certainly know people who have gotten married etc through it, while also making additional platonic friendships at the same time. There is no obligation to be primarily looking for romance through it either, some people just genuinely get together to do rock climbing or to play board games or whatever. It can be a little more organic way to find people.

[Ankhharu]

Originally Posted by theta_sigma

People my age go to clubs? My bedtime is like 9:30.

Really? I'm 40, still go to bars and clubs. Bedtime is 11pm. I guess if you sit around thinking "I'm old" you'll feel old.

[Pitt Chick]

Originally Posted by sparrowmint

Wouldn't it vary depending on what time one's job begins in the morning?

Perhaps, but the person I quoted used age, not work, as the determining factor.

[theta_sigma]

Originally Posted by Ankhharu

Really? I'm 40, still go to bars and clubs. Bedtime is 11pm. I guess if you sit around thinking "I'm old" you'll feel old.

No, I have a toddler, I don't sit around thinking anything. I run around thinking "holy Jesus God, how does this child have so much energy?!"

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by theta_sigma

People my age go to clubs? My bedtime is like 9:30.

Sounds like this is for you: http://inbedbytenpgh.com/

I'm at that point, too. "You want me to meet you at 10? Ten at night?"

[ditchdigger]

Wouldn't it vary depending on what time one's job begins in the morning? I
need to get up between 5 and 6 in the morning to be at work by 7 consistently,
so I start winding down by 9 at night, despite being a hardwired night owl. Melatonin is my saviour. I am 31.

Back when I was in my early 20s, we used to play softball til around 10, go to the bar and drink til past midnight, and still be at work at 7 a.m., 3-4 nights a week. I realized I didn't have that kind of stamina anymore about 25 years ago...

[Moby Hick]

So skip the softball.