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Old 11-09-2010, 11:07 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Originally Posted by eevee View Post
I'm not just addressing you at this point, though I quoted you. some people here would like to see abortion illegal however

as a side note, how would you know if the woman you're dating had an abortion or was never pregnant, other than dating a complete virgin? does it come up on the first date or something?
It's part of the first date questioning, of course!

Where did you grow up?
What do you do for a living?
How many siblings do you have?
Have you ever had an abortion?

 
Old 11-09-2010, 11:11 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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I'm not just addressing you at this point, though I quoted you. some people here would like to see abortion illegal however

as a side note, how would you know if the woman you're dating had an abortion or was never pregnant, other than dating a complete virgin? does it come up on the first date or something?
I never really directly ask. It's always come out because the women I've dated feel comfortable around me. Heard of the saying regarding honey and vinegar, right? The one and only time it's happened was after a couple of beers. After then, I started acting like a jack*** so she'd dump me.

To head off the argument that she could be hiding it from me, that's easily detected based on the inherent personality of the woman, how bluntly honest she is, how much she adopts the "you can't have your cake and eat it too" adage, etc.
 
Old 11-09-2010, 11:14 AM
 
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I never really directly ask. It's always come out because the women I've dated feel comfortable around me. Heard of the saying regarding honey and vinegar, right?

To head off the argument that she could be hiding it from me, that's easily detected based on the inherent personality of the woman, how bluntly honest she is, how much she adopts the "you can't have your cake and eat it too" adage, etc.
Hmm.. kind of like my Grandmother hiding it for nearly 50 years? Not even her husband knew.

You can't tell if a woman has had an abortion by her 'personality'.
 
Old 11-09-2010, 11:17 AM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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I never really directly ask. It's always come out because the women I've dated feel comfortable around me. Heard of the saying regarding honey and vinegar, right? The one and only time it's happened was after a couple of beers. After then, I started acting like a jack*** so she'd dump me.

To head off the argument that she could be hiding it from me, that's easily detected based on the inherent personality of the woman, how bluntly honest she is, how much she adopts the "you can't have your cake and eat it too" adage, etc.
Oh, boy........
How old are you?
 
Old 11-09-2010, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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Oh, boy........
How old are you?
Mid 30's. My fiancee feels exactly the same way. She'd NEVER marry me if I made another woman pregnant. Why does it bother you so much?
 
Old 11-09-2010, 11:21 AM
 
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Mid 30's. My fiancee feels exactly the same way. She'd NEVER marry me if I made another woman pregnant.
So you've never had sex with a woman and lost touch with her? How can you be COMPLETELY positive you haven't gotten a woman pregnant?
 
Old 11-09-2010, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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Mid 30's. My fiancee feels exactly the same way. She'd NEVER marry me if I made another woman pregnant.
Bless your heart, you've led a rather sheltered life, haven't you?
 
Old 11-09-2010, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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Bless your heart, you've led a rather sheltered life, haven't you?
I guess it depends on your perspective. If you think that neither of us never being responsible for a pregnancy is "sheltered", then so be it.
 
Old 11-09-2010, 11:25 AM
 
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I'm not the one thinking I have a right to kill my child because its not convenient to me.
IF. YOU. BELIEVE. ABORTION. IS. MURDER.....DON'T. HAVE. ONE.

Meanwhile, when it comes to other women's lives: MYOB!
 
Old 11-09-2010, 11:26 AM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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I guess it depends on your perspective. If you think that neither of us never being responsible for a pregnancy is "sheltered", then so be it.
No, I am making an educated guess based on your posts.
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